Reading these suicide pages you will find people seeking help and people offering their help. Some witness about suicide from real life experience, others who play along with me would pretend it's a children's game. Some make sick and cruel jokes about it, and angry people blame me for even mentioning the subject. You might also want to read my favourite answers. If you want your answer to be included here, fill in the form.

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What is the best way to kill yourself when you're under 13?

Quelle est la meilleure forme de suicide pour les moins de 13 ans?
18 May 2008 Al Dear "tired of diapers,"

Your life is about so much more than a boyfriend or getting married. Those are things you'll probably do, but they're not your purpose.

Everything I said about a guy toward a girl in my last post also goes for a girl seeking a guy. What makes someone beautiful is what's inside, not outside. Our world brainwashes us into thinking the wrapper is what matters, but they're so wrong. It's no accident that 50% of marriages end in divorce. If you work on making yourself a 10 you'll attract a 10. And a 10 won't care whether you're covered in scars or blind or badly burned or wear adult diapers. He will love you for you. That's not some Dr. Phil psychology, it's a fact. This is coming from a real guy, who knows what he's talking about.

But putting that truth aside, a man is not your purpose for living. Your have your own purpose, a reason why you were created, and it has nothing to do with a man. Don't let anything distract you from living an awesome life and making the most out of the opportunities you have. You have breath in your lungs, you have the chance for an amazing life. Please, make the most of it.

Sincerely,
Al
BigAlOh8@aol.com
17 May 2008 Al Dear Richard,

It's so great that reaching out for help. I know you can work through your depression and go on to lead a great life. I know from my own experiences. I'd love to talk, please send me an email.

Sincerely,
Al
BigAlOh8@aol.com
17 May 2008 Al Dear "tired of diapers,"

I hear you. I am sympathetic to what you're going through. I can only imagine how annoying and rough it is. And maybe you feel embarrassed by wearing them as well. But I can tell you wearing adult absorbent briefs (as you called them "diapers") doesn't make you any less of a man. It is a biological struggle, it is not a reflection of who you are. A person in a wheel chair isn't any less of a person because of their struggles and you certainly aren't any less because of yours. Did you know astronauts wear "Maximum Absorbency Garments" (or diapers) during liftoff and reentry? I have never seen anyone think less of them for it, why? Because their body's movements are beyond their control in such times, as yours are. Whether your problem is the result of a physical injury or an emotional injury, it is obvious that you are not choosing to have this problem, but you can live a great life and work around it. And let me say, being in adult diapers wouldn't turn away a quality woman. She will love you for you. Believe me when I say a woman of any sort of quality will love you for the person you truly are, and a medical condition would never turn her away. Any woman who would only love you for your body or your health wouldn't be in love with you, she'd be in love with your body. There are a lot of great women out there, be patient. I'd love to talk more. If you want, email me anytime.

Sincerely,
Al
BigAlOh8@aol.com
17 May 2008 Al Dear "vomit,"

I don't pretend to have all the answers, and I don't pretend to know what everyone who posts on here is going through. But I do know one thing, and that is that suicide is not the answer. I know that no matter how awful life has been, you can break free of your past and go on to lead a great life. I'm not reading this out of a book, I experienced it. I nearly killed myself years ago, I do know what it's like to feel like there's no hope, but I also know what it is to have everything change inside yourself. If I come off like a know it all, I very sincerely don't mean to. I just care. It breaks my heart to come on here and read of all the pain people are going through. I don't enjoy it. It cuts into my own heart, but I push past that hurt because I care. I have a full-time job, I don't get paid to post on here. I am a very busy person, with a thousand things to do and no time to do them in, but I try to make time every day to try and help people on here because I desperately don't want anyone to kill themselves. The words I post on here often bleed out of my soul. I'm trying to help, I'm not perfect, and I don't have all the perfect things to say, but I do care. To you and everyone else reading this, if you want to talk, I'd love to be here for you. Email me anytime.

Sincerely,
Al
BigAlOh8@aol.com
16 May 2008 Al Dear "tired of diapers,"

Please, killing yourself is not the answer. Have you thought about where you would go if you killed yourself? You're trying to run away from temporary problems that can change in time, but what are you running to? After we die we go to Heaven or Hell for eternity. This life may only last 70 years if you're lucky, but eternity is not another 100 years, or 1,000,000, it is forever. Unending. If you commit suicide you may end up in Hell. I'm not saying all suicides go to Hell, but I'd be very scared. This life can get better, but in Hell you would be tormented for ever. You need to think though what you're talking about. Killing yourself is NOT an escape, it may lead you to a MUCH WORSE torture than you have in this life. What you need is to learn how to cope with your problems, improve on your life and make it better. You can smile again. Things can get better in this life, but once it's over and your dead there are no more chances for a better life. You may be hopelessly in Hell forever. I want to cry, that's terrible. Stop, and really think. Your life can get better, and Hell is forever. Get help now to help you through your problems (you can call the numbers below or meet with a school counselor). I hope you hear my heart. I really care about you. Please email me personally, I'd love to talk.

Sincerely,
Al
BigAlOh8@aol.com

UK Suicide Crisis Helpline: 08457 909090
US Suicide Crisis Helpline: 1-800-273-TALK (8255)
12 May 2008 Al Dear "blown to pieces,"

I don't pretend to know all you've been through or what brought you to feeling like there is no hope, all I can say years ago I nearly ended my own life, but thank God I didn't. Today I am a totally different person. Everything outside of me didn't change, I did. I'm a new person. I have new, much better-life-long friends. I am genuinely happy and free. Please, suicide is not the answer. You can also find freedom and go on to do wonderful things with your life. I definitely encourage you to also talk with someone you can trust (a parent, pastor, school counselor, psychiatrist) about what you're feeling. It is so helpful when someone else can help you carry the weight of your pain and offer you a fresh perspective on things. I would love to be a friend to you, please send me an email. I'd love to talk, and try to support you, encourage you, and maybe even give some good advice.



Sincerely,
Al
BigAlOh8@aol.com

UK Suicide Crisis Helpline: 08457 909090
US Suicide Crisis Helpline: 1-800-273-TALK (8255)
12 May 2008 Al Dear "notspookypenguin,"

You said you missed her. It sounds like you had a great loss. If you ever want a friend to talk about it with. I'm here for you. Please email me anytime.

Sincerely,
Al
BigAlOh8@aol.com

UK Suicide Crisis Helpline: 08457 909090

US Suicide Crisis Helpline: 1-800-273-TALK (8255)
12 May 2008 Al Dear "tired of diapers,"

I'm sorry to hear about your injury. Many, many people wear adult diapers (but no one knows it because they their clothes hide them). You are not alone and you certainly are not any less of a person because you where them. You can live a great life. You can get through your past and forge ahead a great life. I am telling you from personal experience. Suicide is not the answer. It may lead to something far worse than you could ever experience in this life. Please speak with someone about what you're feeling. It can be so freeing when you have someone who can help you carry your burden. Please speak with a parent, pastor, counselor, someone. I would also love to chat with you. Please email me anytime.

Sincerely,
Al
BigAlOh8@aol.com


UK Suicide Crisis Helpline: 08457 909090
US Suicide Crisis Helpline: 1-800-273-TALK (8255)
11 May 2008 Al Dear "just because,"

I know there are times death can be tempting, but it's not the answer for so many reasons. Including the fact that things can change, outside situations can change and most importantly inside you things can change---you can become happy and have peace in this life. You have a purpose for being here and you have to live to fulfill it. There is an afterlife, there is a Heaven and a Hell. I am not saying that all suicides go to Hell, but I'd be very scared==suicide might lead to something far worse than we could ever experience in this life, and it would never end. Killing yourself is not the answer. I beg you, please, speak with someone about what you're feeling (a parent, pastor, counselor, someone you can trust). Take steps to walk out of your pain and go on to lead a great life. I'd love to talk more, please email me.

Sincerely,
Al
BigAlOh8@aol.com
11 May 2008 Tristan Kemp-Smith Hi. My name is Tristan. I don't mind telling you all my name. I do not feel afraid of fraud and so on. I havent come here to share what i think. I havent come here to 'help' people. Ive come here to talk to people about it. Im a good helper and usually help strangers with emotional issues. I usually help with relationships but i thought i would try this. Im 16 and i have no qualifications in psychology. But if you want to talk to me about anything my msn is: Its.Not.Me.Piggy@hotmail.com , Add me and ill be sure to talk to you about anything.
08 May 2008 Al If you are considering suicide, please take a few moments to breathe, read this article, sort through your situation prayerfully, and get help. If you know someone who may be at risk, perhaps this article will help you help them.

Here are some facts to help you say NO to suicide and YES to life.

1. There Is Substantial Evidence for the Existence of God
No games here. The bottom line is that the evidence for the existence of God far outweighs the evidence for atheism. If you doubt that statement, just use some common sense.

The universe began to exist. Whatever begins to exist must have a cause that brought it into existence. Moreover, the universe shows indications of fine-tuning and intricate design. That speaks to the strong likelihood of a Designer at work. You have miracles that still happen today. And the supernatural prophecies within the Bible, that give amazing scientific knowledge before we knew anything about sceince, and amazing predictions that have come to pass. And, finally, the presence of human aspiration, conscience, and spiritual awareness all point to something greater than what we simply see, touch, taste, hear, and smell.

These observations (and others) all mean that God is real.


2. Your Value Comes from God
If God is real, then you are here because God created you. That fact determines your purpose for living as well as your worth as an individual.

The Founding Fathers of the United States of America made clear, in the opening paragaphs of the Declaration of Independence, that our "unalienable rights" (including our rights to "life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness" - the very rights that define our value as human beings) come from the Creator.

That means your value is NOT associated with what other people think of you - even those who may be close to you. Nor does your value come from society. This, of course, doesn't mean that others won't try to diminish you or manipulate your feelings of self-worth. You can, however, rest confident in the "self-evident truth" (to steal a phrase from America's Founders) that your value comes from God. As such, your value is real. No one can steal how important and priceless you are.

3. There Is No "Restart" Button!
Once you take your life, there is no coming back. This is not like a computer you can reboot or a game that you can start over. You have only one life. End it - and you're done. Do not make that choice.

4. Don't Decide Based on Feelings
NEVER let your life be governed by (or ended by) feelings. In fact, you should NEVER make decisions solely based on feelings. Your feelings should follow your decisions - and NOT the other way around.

So, stop, take a breath, count to 1,000 if you have to, but get a firm grip on your feelings. Do that so that you can think clearly about your life and situation. If you are unable to get a handle on your feelings or to get on top of your emotions, then you may be suffering from depression. In that case, see a doctor right away. Get help. And that leads to the final step...

5. Seek Help...NOW
You need to get help...now. If you are considering something as drastic as ending your life, you need to talk to your family, a health professional, a pastor or priest or rabbi, or a counselor. And you need to do these things right away. If you don't have health insurance or can't afford a counselor (and even if you can), consider contacting an area church. Obviously, if you are already in a church, get a hold of your pastor.

Bottom line...Your life is worth living. It's worth protecting. Don't be the one to end it. Get help right away.

UK Suicide Crisis Helpline: 08457 909090
US Suicide Crisis Helpline: 1-800-273-TALK (8255)

08 May 2008 Al Dear "bye,"

Please, suicide is not the answer. My heart is with you. Please email me. I'd love to be a friend. You can make it through all this and live a great, happy life. Let's talk.

Sincerely,
Al
BigAlOh8@aol.com

PS. I also highly recommend you talk with a professional about what you're feeling. You can call a free crisis hotline anytime @ UK Suicide Crisis Helpline: 08457 909090 (UK) or in the US 1-800-273-TALK (8255) / www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org. They have trained people who can help.
07 May 2008 im still here for you please not i will help anyone that needs help. i will not help with suicide suggestions, or anything of that sense. please only ask for help getting through things and not suicide help. thank you. i do care about ya'll but i dont care to help with your death. twistedndisturbed@yahoo.com
06 May 2008 dead inside. Dear 'not spooky penguin.'

Please be okay. Connor Oberst tends to ignite depression in everyone. But please, if you want to talk about whats going on in your life, email me. I hope things get better for you.

miss_murder_666@hotmail.com
05 May 2008 Al Dear Empty,

You sound really stressed and frustrated. Please, don't let suicide be an option. You can work through this all. I'd love to be there for you. Please email me anytime.

Sincerely,
Al
BigAlOh8@aol.com
05 May 2008 Al Hi Johnny,

Killing yourself is not the answer. I don't know what's going on, but my heart is with you. You are obviously going through a lot. Let me tell you from my personal experience... THERE IS HOPE. Life can really be terrible sometimes, it can seem hopeless, but it's not. Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. Things can get better. You may not realize it right now, but you have a purpose for being on this earth. You're not here by accident. And you must keep on living to discover and live out that purpose. I would love to talk more. Please email me.

Sincerely,
Al
BigAlOh8@aol.com
02 May 2008 im here for you you people need help!! if you don't want to talk to a counseler, or can;t talk to a parent please feel free to email me. I have been through so much and can offer some help to those in need. please don't even consider suicide... it's permanent. There are better ways to deal with things other than suicide. please email me if you want to talk. twistedndisturbed@yahoo.com
29 Apr 2008 Al The 15-year-old who just got kicked out the house (you didn't say your name),

I'm really sorry to hear about the situation. It sounds like a lot has happened for you to get kicked out. I'd love to talk and hopefully offer some good advice. Please email me. And please don't let suicide be a thought. It sounds like the situation stinks, but death isn't the answer. You can work through this and go on to lead an amazing life. This isn't the beggining of the end, it's the end of the beggining. Things will work out. I hope to chat soon.

Sincerely,
Al
BigAlOh8@aol.com
28 Apr 2008 Al spook peng,

Congradulations on your new girlfriend! I'd be careful though if you're both seriously depressed. You have to be careful you don't pull each other further down. Maybe you guys could help each other by spending time together with upbeat, encouraging people, or getting into some counseling together. I'd love to talk more, please send me an email.

Sincerely,
Al
BigAlOh8@aol.com
28 Apr 2008 Al Silusm,

It sounds like you've been going through a lot for a long time. Please don't let your mind wander to hurting people. Their pain won't take away your pain. There is no justice in their suffering. Please, email me. I'd love to talk. It might help to talk about what you're going through and get it all off your chest with me rather than doing something you might regret later.

Sincerely,
Al
BigAlOh8@aol.com

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