|Reading these suicide pages you will find people seeking help and people offering their help. Some witness about suicide from real life experience, others who play along with me would pretend it's a children's game. Some make sick and cruel jokes about it, and angry people blame me for even mentioning the subject. You might also want to read my favourite answers. If you want your answer to be included here, fill in the form.|
What is the best way to kill yourself when you're under 13?
Quelle est la meilleure forme de suicide pour les moins de 13 ans?
|11 Dec 2009||So many of you are going through so much. My heart is with you. Let me tell you from my personal experience... THERE IS HOPE. Life can really be terrible sometimes, it can seem hopeless, but it's not. Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. Things can get better. You may not realize it right now, but you have a purpose for being on this earth. You're not here by accident. And you must keep on living to discover and live out that purpose. I would love to talk more. Please email me. My name's Al.
I highly recommend you talk with a professional about what you're feeling. You can call a free crisis hotline anytime @ UK Suicide Crisis Helpline: 08457 909090 (UK) or in the US 1-800-273-TALK (8255) / www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org. They have trained people who can help.
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|24 Nov 2009||Courtney||Wow, looks like I'm back. It's been a while since I've written in here. Almost a year. I've gotten a lot of emails from people saying they care. And I guess I can say that things got better. It took time, and 2 suicide attempts, but they really did.
I know I sound really hypocritical, but, here's a quote I really like. "Everything will be okay in the end. If it's not okay, it's not the end."
Most likely, if you're feeling suicidal, you're suffering from an emotional disorder. It's not your fault, and the best thing to do would be to get help.
I mean, after I tried to kill myself, I got psychiatric help, and I was put on anti-depressants. It made a lot of things better.
I'm just asking everyone who's thinking about killing themselves to really stop. And think. Try to make things better. If anyone wants to talk to someone, just send me an email at AmmyLuvs@hotmail.com
|04 Nov 2009||shelley||Don't do it! Life is hard at 13, you are going to be juged for everything, the way you look, music you listen too, you may do things with the opposite sex that the whole school finds out about and family problems etc... suicide is never the answer, although it may seem like a great solution. Please find someone to talk too. You can even email me! trust me, life is going to throw really horrible obsticals at you, but you can change things,,,it may take a while, but things can change!. Try to smile!|
|15 Sep 2009||i want to live in the wild||If you were the person you most wanted to be, who would you be? If you could be doing anything right now, what would you you be doing? If you could change anything in the world, what would it be?
If you were completely free to express your most dearly held dreams and visions, how would you do that? If you were wealthy enough to buy anything at all, how would you use and invest that wealth in a meaningful way?
If you had the time, the money, the knowledge, the energy and the resources to pursue your highest vision, what would you seek to do? If you were free from all the things that limit you and hold you back, in what direction would you go?
Stop for a moment and consider these things. Then consider this: There is no need to wait a single moment longer. You can start now to follow your most compelling passion, to achieve your most treasured dreams.
Yes, there are obstacles that stand in your way, but when you're living with purpose and passion, you will find a way around any obstacle and beyond any difficulty.
|13 Sep 2009||Matt Veron||Choose life I am a former witness to my best friend killing himself with a 12 gauge... over a girl.. I want those who are seeking advise. that i am a 29yr Father of a 4yr old and I've had my struggles but if you refuse my request to help I will seek litigation proceedings against you. just let me help! Suicide is NOT A FUCKING JOKE KID!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!|
|03 Sep 2009||dead inside.||Suicide is never the answer.
There are people in worse situations then you. Look at the story of jaycee lee, the girl who was found 18 years after being abducted. Think of what she has gone through for the last 18 years of her life and what her 2 little girls have gone through. Her life sucked for 18 years. Here daughters lives have sucked for 15 years, and 11 years. But they are free now. Pain is a part of life. Suffering and misery is dealt to everyone in different amounts. You don't know what kind of pains you have to endure during your life, but if you get through them, there is always a reward. And if there isn't a reward in this life after all your hardships, there will surely be a reward for you in the next. Your pain and suffering is not invisible. We all see it. We all know it. We all feel it. At different times, in different situations. But we all hurt at some point. It's okay to hurt. Let it hurt. But make it your goal to get better. Being a teenager is painful. Everyone suffers. Even those perfect blonde cheerleaders have some sort of pain in their life. Being a teenager is just a step you have to get through in life. Make it through. Be strong. Learn to believe in yourself and be confident in your abilities. You are not ugly. You are not stupid. You are not fat. If boys don't talk to you, its not the end of the world. If girls don't talk to you, its not the end of the world. Give it time. Don't live your life for others, live it for yourself. Your suppose to be awkward in your teenage years. Your suppose to experiencing new things, some good, some bad. Take those experiences and let them shape you into a better person. You all have the ability. For those of you who are older and have already gone through your teenage years and are still finding yourselves in depression, seek help. Pain happens. Misery happens. Suffering happens. But the heart, body and mind are stronger than you let yourself believe. Grieve, seek help, and have hope to recover. It's not pointless. It's not hopeless. You have to try. Cause it's worth it. This is the only life you'll ever have. Why waste it doing things for others? Live for yourself. Learn to love yourself. Learn to see that there are people who care. Learn to communicate your feelings. Learn to appreciate what you have. Learn to empathize with those in worse situations. You are good people. Even if you have done bad things, ask for forgiveness from, people, from god (if you believe in him), from yourself. Forgive yourself. Life is what you make it. Self pity never does any good. Smile even when your having a bad day. Hug your friends. Just stand outside and feel the warm sun kiss your skin, or the wind caress your hair. If nothing else matters, then just look at how beautiful it is when the sun rises and sets each day. There's beauty in your life. You just have to open your eyes and see it. Love yourself. Be yourself. You'll be okay. Trust yourselves. You'll be okay. And no, I am not some old hag sitting at a computer, I'm not even an adult yet myself. Life hurts. Learn from the pain. Learn to live. Because there is so little time to live. Death will come. You can't stop it. It will eventually come. So make the best of what time you have and live.
|17 Aug 2009||Angeltears||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g5VLtJeeEpA
Please to take a look at these links. I will be posting more on this forum only because I stumbled upon it when I was at my lowest point and so may someone else. The links I am posting may help others as it helped me. I suffer from bipolar and many people who look for answers online do too. Well you are not alone!! Millions of us are waking up to the fact that life sucks!!! So we need to make a better plan and create a new way to live. I hope you will like it because I sure do!
Lots of love to all of you out there and many many blessings!!!
|05 Aug 2009||jocee||Please, Call the kids help phone. Your life will be so much better. Even if you have to get a foster family, You will feel much better. Get a job, earn some money and buy some clothes or something good to make your self feel better. not drugs, cigs, or pills. buy something that will make other people feel good like clothes, jewellry, games. I really would like it if you wouldnt feel the way you do. take a couple naps everyday and drink some water. go to the doctors and ask for some anti-depressants. not to kil;l yourself with them, but to make you feel better. exercise is another way to make you feel good. not just about your body but exercising acctually make your brain and your body feel better. I hope that helped. have a nice and long life. :)|
|26 Jul 2009||Melissa Reed||Hey ya'all... I been getting alot of people adding me on messenger but my messenger's not working so you'll have to e-mail me... I couldn't get the e-mail addresses so I hope people who contacted me see this and e-mail me... my e-mail address is firstname.lastname@example.org... or my cell is 740-617-7052 but that's for absolute emergencies please... I'll be online as much as I can but I can't promise I'll be online every day but I'll try...|
|09 Jun 2009||Alexandra||i suppose you could ask Cecelia Lisbon, but she isn't around anymore to answer questions.
i can talk though; i can always talk, but even better- i can always listen.
|12 May 2009||Nicole G look here.||You said -
no one gives a shit people are assholes when it comes to your feeling they just dont fucking care.
I care, want someone to talk to? Im not a professional.. Just want to talk to you, you seem nice, and when I read your comment I just really felt the need to get in touch. I hope you read this.
|10 Apr 2009||dead inside.||if you need help, talk to a professional.
you can email me if you want to as well, even though i am no professional, i will try my best to help.
|04 Apr 2009||Angel||Can anyone hear throw me a rope!
Its dark and cold - i just can't cope!
All alone, groping my way, help me get out - i don't want to stay!
I know your there, i can hear your call, but i so afraid if i climb i may fall.
This is my life trapped in a pit,
my pit of despair where alone i do sit.
If i don't get out soon i think i might die, death like a vulture is circling high,
The presence of evil is right at my side, feeding me poison, keeping me tied.
How do i get out God - Help me please!
Before i'm overtaken by this infectious disease...
I wrote that whilst sitting in that hole a few years ago, ever felt like that? email me at email@example.com
|16 Mar 2009||paul||give me a ring before you do any thing
|18 Feb 2009||Melissa Reed||If anyone's serious and seriously wants help, my yahoo is firstname.lastname@example.org... you can e-mail me or add me to your messenger... I'm always willing to help. It can't rain all the time... eventually the sun has to come out and shine... trust me... I've been suicidal since I was 12 and I stil think about it every day, but I'm never going to do it. If you're in immediate need for help and you can't get ahold of me call 1-800-SUICIDE... I've called this number many times... their people can help you. Talk to you later.|
|04 Dec 2008||xxemoqueenxx||look if your into killing yourself that bad im here to help. i have tried so many times and it has not worked. i have many reasons y i wanna stop, but i tried suicide because i used to be abused, verbally and physically. i dont anymore but it was hard to overcome it. i will help anyone that would talk to me. it will be only between u and me. noone else. ill try my best to understand and help u and ill listen. so e-mail me if you want.|
|03 Dec 2008||Tanya||If anyone really is thinking about suicide and needs help and doesn't know what to do.. you can contact me and maybe i'll change your mind for suicide isn't the way to go at all.|
|29 Nov 2008||Lennie Melvin||I'm not sure if suicide is the right answer, sometimes I think it is and sometimes I despise the mre thought of it.
One thing that annoys me, is that I have a friend, called Louise... and no that's not all! She told me that suicide is the coward's way out.
I wonder if she's ever tried plucking up enough courage to put her lights out! Cause it sure ain't that easy...
But no, I didn't come here just to ramble... I know how hard it is to read those really long posts - I normally give up after the first "No one understands me!"
Although I'm sure they're helpful to whom ever is writing them, just to let out all that grief.
Something that those of you who aren't so keen on killing yourselves, and have possibly not been taken seriously enough for anyone to bother actually getting you a counsellor (stupid form tutor, thinking my problems weren't serious HAHA), woah, ignore the pysco here! Just visit "moodgym", you can probably Google it, before you do anything too rash.
I remember, er... I forget, but email me if you'd like. I'm not usually this slurred.
|29 Nov 2008||Marie-Aimee||When i wrote my first answer i was fooling around and I had not red others people answer. Now I realise some people took the question seriously.
I know life sucks at time and i know how it is to be stuck in a hole and not finding a way or a reason to get out of it! But when you feel that way...try to talk to a tree and hug it!!! You can go in a forest where nobody will watch you! The tree will listen and never judge you! I know it sounds totally crazy and lunatic but I can assure you that the tree will give you back something posstive in return of your talk! And when you feel like nothing in life is worth living you have nothing to lose! I guess it's the best aspect of feeling that way!
|28 Nov 2008||If you're thinking about suicide, please reach out for help. I definitely encourage you to talk with someone you can trust (a parent, pastor, school counselor, psychiatrist) about what you're feeling. It is so helpful when someone else can help you carry the weight of your pain and offer you a fresh perspective on things.
I don't have all the answers, but I do know one thing... you have value. You matter.
Here is a number that can help. You can call them 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.
UK Suicide Crisis Helpline: 08457 909090
US Suicide Crisis Helpline: 1-800-273-TALK (8255)
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