|Reading these suicide pages you will find people seeking help and people offering their help. Some witness about suicide from real life experience, others who play along with me would pretend it's a children's game. Some make sick and cruel jokes about it, and angry people blame me for even mentioning the subject. You might also want to read my favourite answers. If you want your answer to be included here, fill in the form.|
What is the best way to kill yourself when you're under 13?
Quelle est la meilleure forme de suicide pour les moins de 13 ans?
|24 May 2005||Nylphada (SYS)||Your life is hell?
The only thing you want is to die and never see daylight again?
But some part of you wants to brake down, cry and beg for help...
The other part says ''No'' you can't you have to be strong and not look like an idiot...
Well you wont look like an idiot to us... no matter what you are going threw we will listen as best we can.
email us email@example.com
|23 May 2005||sabbir||Hiya im from www.suicide.cjb.net
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|15 May 2005||Brandy||Mouchette ~ I was surprised to get an email from you. Maybe you send that one out to everyone who posts to your site, but even if that's the case, I wanted to answer your question. Did I think my message might encourage someone to commit suicide? No, of course not, that's the last thing I want for anyone, especially children. I have a brother who becomes severely depressed and suicidal time after time, and these are the same things I want him to know: that he is worthy of love and nurturing, that there IS joy to be found in this life, hopefully peace also. That he has no reason to believe he is a failure or that he has failed anyone else. That his life is important to ME, and all those who love him. That it hurts us to know that he hurts in a way that we don't be able to seem to always understand entirely or to be able to fix, no matter how badly we want to. That he is significant and important, and was put on this Earth for reasons, that his life and existence are MEANINGFUL. That I could never get over the heartache and pain of losing him. I wanted to express the feelings of someone who loves someone who is suicidal, so that maybe it would help someone to understand maybe in a way they hadn't considered, how those around them feel about them. I wanted to answer you, from the standpoint of a mother with a daughter your age, in sincere hopes of maybe just reaching one person and helping them to see things a tiny bit differently, for the sole purpose of helping someone to understand that they are important, and worthy of love, and significant in this life, if perhaps they were questioning those things. In regards to your other question, did I think that reading my message would distract anyone? I wasn't trying to distract anyone, that implies an attempt to fool someone. I have no desire to fool anyone, I just couldn't sit by after reading posts from children who are in so much pain, hurting enough to no longer want to live, without expressing love and validations for them. In addition, to all those adults whose posts I read, that actually ENCOURAGE these babies to harm themselves, go pick on somebody your own size. Find an adult or adult website to express yourselves. Your frame of mind is very different from the frames of mind of these children. You come at it from a whole different place, WHAT ARE YOU THINKING??? I hope that you all find reason and cause to embrace your life and make it your own in a way that leads you to happiness and peace, but you need to leave these babies alone, they are BABIES!! They've never even had a chance to be on their own and make their lives their own in a way that brings them joy and purpose. How can you for one second think that's it okay to help steal that away from them? It's NOT OKAY. Mouchette ~ I don't know why you appear to have thought about suicide to this degree, obviously I don't know you or much about you at all, save what I see on this site. But I can tell from this site that you are gifted, talented, beautiful, and intelligent. Anyone could see that. You have so much time ahead of you to make your life whatever you wish it could be. If you don't like what it is now, you'll be in control of it yourself before long, and you can make it whatever you want it to be. Teenage years are hard for everyone, but I know it's more difficult for some than others, I was myself one of the ones it was very difficult for. But things really do start to change as you get a little older, maybe not all at once, but they do change. You begin to feel a little more emotionally balanced, your moods aren't constantly up and down. You get older and can do things like get a job, a car, your own place to live. You can control your life and make it whatever you want to be. In the meantime, if you are in a bad situation at home, like some of the other people who posted to your site, that is the cause for most or all of your pain, can you think of any way to get help for yourself to get out of that situation? I don't know where you live, are there children's services organizations where you are? If you don't know, you can tell me what city you're in and I will do all I can to find out for you, and will post the information here for you to find.|
|09 May 2005||Brandy||It absolutely breaks my heart to even see this website. I was troubled as a teen also, had an abusive homelife for several years, my mom split when I was 14, I'd been attacked and raped by a burglar when I was 12, my parents split when I was 9 and all of my mom's subsequent loser boyfriends/husbands were cruel, violent, abusive idiots. I had tons of emotional baggage from those things, and became seriously depressed for several years, seriously contemplated suicide a couple of times. Actually had it planned out once, pills in my hand, but the phone rang and my friend talked me out of it. So, it's not that I don't somewhat understand the feelings, I actually really do. And reading these posts, it brings back a lot of those awful memories of feeling that way. I just wanted to post and say please, please try your hardest to give yourself time for your life to start. I'm 32 now, have a 13 year old of my own, who in my eyes, is of course, just a baby. It makes me want to reach out and be able to hug all of you 'babies' out there, tell you it will get better. I'm so sorry some of you have parents that treat you cruelly, you KNOW you don't deserve it. The problems lie with them, although unfortunately you suffer for it. I know, I've been there. You are all worthwhile, significant, and worthy of love. We all have gifts and are making differences in the lives of others every day, even when we don't realize we are. I'm so sorry you hurt, I know your pain is real. But if you take your life, you're robbing yourself. Try to keep this in mind: (I can say this now that I've made it through those horrible adolescent years-and believe me, NOBODY has fond memories of their adolescence, not even the people you go to school with now who you think have the perfect lives...20 years from now they'll look back and be so glad they never have to do THAT again, that's the same for everyone) from the time you are 11 until you are about 19, your body and brain are going through so many changes, it really does freak your whole system out. So even for those who aren't being abused, etc., even small things that go wrong feel very exaggerrated and the feelings of pain are inflated. That's not your fault, you are not crazy, a lot of teens suffer from real depression. It's a very real, very medical problem in a lot of cases, and can be treated. I understand that some of you are suffering horrible abuses at home, and that will obviously compound your depression or even cause it, and if that's the case, you need to get out of that environment. I understand some of you are not in the states, do you have the equivalent of Family Services, or Social Services where you are? If you are being hurt by someone in your home, CALL THEM for help. You can tell a teacher, tell the parent of a friend, tell a family friend that you trust, or a relative, or a coach, or you can even call the police. You don't deserve to be in that environment, you are a precious, important life who is on this Earth for many reasons! And even for those who are not suffering abuses, but still find themselves depressed, feeling hopeless, try to gather the strength and courage to ask for help. It's not your fault, you are not crazy, you have an illness. Like any other illness, it needs treatment. If you had cancer, you'd take treatment for yourself, right? Well depression is an illness, you have no control over whether or not you are afflicted with it, and there are medicications that can help. Also peer support groups, church youth groups, etc. There are people who care about you, and who will help you. For many, things get better after you get to be around 19 or 20, because your body stops flipping out hormonally quite so much, and things balance out. For some, depression will be something you have to manage your whole life (I have an older brother who has suffered since early, early childhood and who is now 39 and struggles a great deal to get through suicidal feelings), but you can manage it through support and medications, lifestyle changes, learning to manage stress and working to develop your coping mechanisms. That brother I mentioned, is 39 and at this very moment in the psychiatric unit of a hospital due to another suicidal episode. He hadn't been taking his meds for a week because he has a fear of driving and didn't go pick them up. But as soon as the meds began to kick in, he began feeling less and less desperate, he's beginning to balance out again. Please seek help for yourselves, and if you don't know how, email me at firstname.lastname@example.org and tell me where you are and I will find help for you. Please don't hurt yourselves, please know that you are significant, worthy of love, that you DO have purpose in this life, and that you CAN find joy in this life. You're just babies, you have so much time ahead of you to be whoever you want, do whatever you want, accomplish whatever you want. My thoughts and prayers and sincere wishes for your healing and happiness are with you.|
|07 May 2005||monkey sue||IS YOUR BRAIN WORKING AGAINST YOU?
1 in 5 people with Bipolar Disorder commit suicide.
That's 20 percent.
If you are feeling suicidal, even if you feel there is a reasonable motivation for it, there is a good chance you are suffering from BIPOLAR DISORDER (also known as manic depression). Brain chemistry causes "cycles" of mood swings, from depressive/panicked, to manic/ecstatic to hypomanic (happy and hyperactive).
If you've got Bipolar, you swing emotionally from feeling wonderful, and lucid, to totally and thoroughly depressed. It is this 'swing' which makes bipolar so deadly-- because unlike people who are unipolar depressed, bipolars come and go out of their depression and find enough 'clarity' to actually kill themselves.
If you are feeling suicidal, please talk to a psychiatrist or even go to the hospital emergency room. I was suicidal before. I have bipolar. There is a whole generation of mood stabilizers invented in the 90's which don't interefere with everyday life, but do stop the torrential, emotional torment that people go through. These medications have seriously helped me stay collected and deal with my problems with a real clarity.
1 in 5!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !! !
Can you believe it?
If you're seriously feeling suicidal, go to the emergency room, or make an appointment with a psychiatrist! Please! xox
|07 May 2005||lisa||i honestly dont see how some of this kids take this like a game. this is a serous thing and you should seek help and if you need someone to talk to you can talk to me. my email is email@example.com you need to seek help instead of wasting your time on a site that promotes suicide depression is a hard thing to overcome i know that myself.just get help professional|
|04 May 2005||Kel||I personally know how hard it is to be young and depressed. I have been through some of the worst crap ever. Now i aint suggesting you find god or shit like that coz we all know thats not gona help right now. your upset. you want attention. you miss your ex. look..firstly..things can only get better from here. i suggest you ring the operator and ask to be put through to your local social services. there are people that can listen to you. they wont try to talk you out of anything. they will just listen and offer advice. If you are being abused or wrongly treated at home..speak to the child protection team in social services. if they feel you are not safe at home they will put you in care and take you out of your home and keep you safe. remember, anything you tell social workers will be kept confidnetial. they wont go tell your parents or the police what you have told them. death is a way out..but do you really wanna die before you lived? before you have your own family? before your happy. i was depressed when i was little and i nearly killed myself. im so glad i didnt!|
|20 Apr 2005||Nathalie||You feel like dying as others feel like smiling
You feel like it's the best way as others feel like going outside
Suicide brings a smile on your face as to others it brings tears
But I'm asking you a chance to help...
|20 Apr 2005||Nylphada||When your heart would have explosed...
When tears will run done your cheeks...
When suicide will leave a sour taste in your mouth...
I'll be there... we will be there we are the the suicidal youth services team... we would love love to hear your story... and of course help you make the best decison
|15 Apr 2005||ryan||Here' the deal, no life is not fair, sometimes that works against you, sometimes for you. The big goal in life is nothing more than to be happy. Well happiness is not fate, you have to contribute to your own happiness. Use your energy to do something good for yourself, anything. Don't wait for the world to be good to you, make your own path. We're all going to pass away some day anyway. Life is usually less than 100 years, so just stick around and see what you have in store for you. You'll be suprised what you can do if you'll just treat yourself good and do things that make you smile. You'll also find that yes, alot of people in this world suck, who cares, you'll just love the one that don't that much more. Nobody can take your spirit away, that's yours o keep. Treat it right.|
|11 Apr 2005||Elliot||This is one of the most offensive websites I've ever seenand Ive seen a few. It's so disgusting, from the original idea to the comments posted, that I actually feel sick.
Suicide is a massive problem the world throughout. Anyone feeling so desperate that they are considering taking their own life must be in a terrible, frightening and lonely place. These people deserve nothing but our compassion, not our sniggers, or nasty, wicked websites like this.
That this website is specifically aimed at children is especially sick; the owner seriously needs to consider his/her own motives. What was going through your mind during the hours it took to create this site? Posting sick comments is one thing, actually hosting a forum for such a thing is macabre, not to say pointless: there is no reason why children under 13 should commit suicide in any other way than adults, indeed, they dont.
For those in despair who visited this website looking for help, the Samaritans is a UK based suicide helpline. Samaritans are available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week to listen to and support those in distress, including those who are thinking about taking their own life. Samaritans wont tell you what to do, wont give you advice, wont judge you for what youre feeling, they will just listen and try to understand and in total confidence. Visit www.samaritans.org or call 08457 909090.
|28 Mar 2005||Star||Someone once said, "The only difference between a diamond and a lump of coal is that the diamond had more pressure put on it." If that were the case, we should all be shining brightly by now.
Stress contributes to emotional upheaval irritability, anger, and depression.
Here to help you meet stress head-on and conquer it:
Give yourself a break. It's okay to goof off, cancel a lunch date, or miss a deadline now and then. In six months or 10 years, who will remember?
Put yourself first. That's right! If you aren't functioning at your peak, your work and your relationships will suffer. Find time for yourself, and try to do at least one relaxing thing each day: Take a bubble bath, or read a chapter of a favorite book.
Set boundaries. Like the stressed-out mom who sat in the playpen to keep away the children, you can erect some barriers. Decide what you will do and when. Better still, decide what you won't do and dare to say "no." Avoid anything, and anyone, who wastes your time.
Clarify your goals. Decide exactly what needs to be done, and plan a smart way of accomplishing each task. Oh, and give yourself a big STAR on the calendar every time you achieve even one of your goals, no matter how small.
Get spiritual. Get in touch with your spiritual values, and align your plans and activities with them. For instance, read an inspiring book, then figure out how to incorporate what you learned into your day-to-day life.
Take five. Right now stop what you are doing to cherish the moment. Savor whatever you're drinking or eating. Or go outside and smell the air, the flowers and the trees. Feel the wind, sunshine or rain on your face. Listen for tiny sounds. Take a moment every day to marvel at the wonders all around you.
Breathe. Yes! It's that simple. Breathe deeply, but don't hyperventilate. Inhale as though you were sniffing a delightful scent. Then stre-e-e-tch your arms high over your head as you slowly and completely exhale.
|25 Mar 2005||Nylphada (SYS)||When You'll want to tear all the pain of your body... I'll will be there, we will be there... We are the suicidal youth services team... we would love to hear your story
|23 Mar 2005||neda||im not here to tell people how to kill themselves..ive attempted suicide b4 and trust me ive been thru it all so im here to help ..im gonna have my site put up soon and a phone line..i promise if i cant help..at least im a listening ear.pls pls add me people..b4 u try to hurt urselves just think about talking to me..its amzing how much a stranger can help.|
|21 Mar 2005||Nylphada||Hi I'm Nylphada from the SYS (suicidal Youth Services) We like to talk with anyone or give out advice... we have a website www.suicidalyouthservices.piczo.com
an a email firstname.lastname@example.org
|16 Mar 2005||candice||hey guys ppl add me i want to help yu i think that u all are wlcome to add me i will help yu and everything will be ok dont worry....ummm ya so how are yu all donig to day my day has been shit all day i have been thinking about ppl that do this to themsleves and i think that im donig the right thing and help yu all that want my help|
|16 Mar 2005||ben cromer||my friend took about 100 2mg pills of xanax and went hiking into some mountains in colorado untill he passed out, then he froze to death. thats a way to kill yourself but if cause a lot of pain from his family and ecspecially his friends, suicide is not the answere there is always help out there, i myself have felt suicidal many times but when i think of the pain my friends and family would have to cope with if i did that it changes my mine completely, to me my friends and family are more important that me, if anyone feels like they just cant take it anymore e-mail me at email@example.com and i will do anything i can to help you feel better about your life|
|15 Mar 2005||georgia fenton||I am a student councillor @ my secondary skool so i know wot most of you guys r goin thru one way or another mail me and I'll give u personal and confidential advice|
|15 Mar 2005||*xox*candice*xox*||hey guys im here i cnat say much my lil bro is here i have add some ppl add me but i think that more should i can help ALOT!!!! trust me|
|17 Feb 2005||Suzanne||If anyone wants to talk, I will be glad to listen! firstname.lastname@example.org|