What is the best way to kill yourself when you're under 13?
Quelle est la meilleure forme de suicide pour les moins de 13 ans?
|10 May 2007||rebecca||Hey, I discovered this site when I was feeling low and the only place I had to turn was the internet.
I have had depression for about 7 years so I know what it feels like to give up and want nothing more than to end it all. I dont want to patronise you and Im not going to say dont kill yourself think of your family because when I think of my family it makes me feel worse. Instead I would like to say make your own life. If you dont like your biological family or those who are horrid to you then just block them out. Ignore all they say and all they do. I have and it can be hard to do sometimes but it helps trust me.
For whoever is reading this I know I dont know you and I know you probably think I dont care about you but youre wrong. I care more than you would ever know and I want to say please dont hurt yourself because its not fair on you. You will be happy one day if you just keep living. It can be hard to believe that but instead of trying to believe it try to ignore it. I know that sounds strange but if you ignore the fact that youre unhappy and that you want to be happy you just may become happy.
My e-mail is Rebecca_harlow@hotmail.com talk to me if you need to, because I am here for you not to judge but to listen and to care. And if you feel silly adding me or talking to me just think this is all anonymous so what have you got to lose.
I hope you feel comforted by this website and realise that you are not alone because its true. YOU ARE NOT ALONE. And if you ever think no one cares about you just remember I do and I want you to be happy.
|06 May 2007||Just DONT||Don't kill yourself - get some advice like http://suicidal.com/|
|27 Apr 2007||Bennyboi||Hi, its ben again, just reminding you that people will like you if you let them, whether you are single, an orphan, a freak (exuse the expression) or have no friends.
Just apply yourself and have a go, if you fail and thats the worst thing that will ever happen to you, your home scott free!
However, if you dont think my advice is helping, either come up with your own ideas or relize there is always someone worst than you and you can get help! You can get alot of help, turn to god, go to counselling or call your national helpline.
Hec, you can see your local priest even if your Athiest or Agnostic.
Good luck in the future.
P.S.If you ever need some one to talk to, email@example.com
|25 Apr 2007||remember to feel real.||if you just need someone to listen to you...i'm here for you.
if you need a shoulder to cry on...i'm here for you.
if you just need a hug...i'm here for you.
if you need some advice...i'm here for you.
i guess i can't really give you all a hug, as much as i'd like to. but i'll do whatever i can to make it a little better. if you need someone to talk to, please come talk to me. i want to help. if you've already added me on msn, then come talk to me, send me an email, or something. i want to help. i care. i swear i do. reading these posts makes me sad. i just want to help. please keep holding on. its all one can do. hang in there.
lots of love.
|19 Apr 2007||Kate||At 13 you should not want to kill yourself. Suicide is a permanant solution to a temporary problem. I am almost 19 and i attempted at 15. I have a mental disorder. I'm BiPolar. At 13 I was so confused about what was going on in my life. Many times I have thought about trying again. But then I imagine my funeral. I think of who would be there. What would they say? What would they do? Then I think of my mother, and I see her weeping. I know she would blame herself. Then I turn to my brother. He wishes that he could have saved me. He becomes even more confused about his own life. And i realize, that no matter what the problem is right now, there is always SOMETHING I can do to make life just a little bit better. I feel so lucky to be alive. I have been through abuse, rape, and loss. And every time it gets bad, I just say to myself that what doesn't kill me, will ALWAYS make me stronger. I do not believe in God. I am not a religous person. But life is a gift. And everyone deserves to live it. If anyone needs to talk, please contact me. I will not be biased in any way. I will just listen. Peace and Love yall!
|18 Apr 2007||rae baby||First off why do you want to know? Second why but out imfo that gives people ideas to take their lives. Even worse take other peoples lives. I am a mom of 2 daughters. Now 22, and 18 my youngest wanted to kill her-self. Because at age 12 see went to school to find out that an 8yr old who see tutored was killed in him sleep. Some-one shoot into his room thinking it was some-one else. See could not handle his death. See is now doing great. But april 14th was 5 years since his death. He is still missed. As anyone of you. Your life is worth so much more. Use your experience, your sadness, your hurt to make this a better world for the up coming children. There is people outthere who wants to help. I am one. Please don't let some of the remarks wrote in to heart. Remember there are also people out their that want to hurt also, or just think they are being funny. But litle do they know their remark could send some-one over the edge. Think about that people when you choose to put out in-put on such a serious subject. Suicide is never the answer. Cry out to God because I promise you he does love you. I don't know any of you put I do care and love each of you and promise to keep you in my prayers. Stay alive, always ask for help, even if one person don't keep asking.|
|17 Apr 2007||Cindy||This past weekend our community lost another teen to suicide. It is the second in less than two months. Our local high school is filled with grief and dismay. The kids are in a confused and sorrowfilled state. The adults are left with the questions, what did i miss, where did I go wrong.
Kids are my life's work. They flock to me me and open their hearts to me without even asking. I always make myself available to them, at school, Church and give my phone number freely to those in need.
I have helped many kids but the ones that stand out in my mind the most are the ones I missed. I too was once thrown into a pitt of living with my own misery. I refused medication for a long time but finally gave in. My life story could probably be somewhat shocking to believe that i made it through but i won't go into detail here. I care for those who need someone to care for them. I don't care if I don't know you, I don't care if you have done horrible things, I want to be able to help show you that no matter the hand you have been delt in life, YOUR LIFE IS WORTH LIVING! Had I ended my life some of those kids that I have helped might not have had anyone to help them through their hard times.
You may think that at this momment your life has no purpose but I assure you it does. It may be years before you realize what that purpose is but it will one day be shown to you. Don't throw your life away because of today's temporary adversity. You may be the person that will save another's life one day. Please write to me anytime. I try to check my email everyday but because of my envolvement with the youth in my community I can't always do that. If you talk to me and get to know me you will see that I am not just some old person trying to pry. I am 35, yes i grew up but i never left my youth behind me. I look forward to talking to any of you who need a listening ear. Please talk to me before you make this perminent decision. Let me help you through this horrible time in your life.
|17 Apr 2007||Heather||I WANT TO HELP-
I WANT NOTHING MORE TO HELP
and from every entry I have read on here, I made a group on myspace called
" Better Solutions"
PLEASE, If you don't have a myspace CREATE ONE
Get a hold of me asap
or email me for a myspace invite
to create a profile
PLEASE, I'm reaching my hand out
to anyone that will grab it-
some of you have already gotten invites from me..
I'm NOT a therapist, I'm not a counsler, I'm just an individual who use to be just like you... I"m also only 19.
|17 Apr 2007||Heather||Suicide isn't the answer, and trust me.. I know how you guys feel when you read that. You get disappointed because you wonder, " so what is?" or " will I ever find a way out?".. I still have suicidal thoughts to this day, and I also use to be heavily into self mutilation..
I just figure the hard days of when you have the urge to slice, or the urge to pull the trigger, or OD or anything you have in mind, just remember some days are worse than others- and you just have to push through the bad to get to the good. If your life has started out pretty shitty, it's only going to get better, you see all these teens and young adults getting everything they could ever ask for while you are being made fun of, or being abused- or whatever you are going through.. just remember, that IS how you will be one day, and your time is soon to come.
The saying " what doesn't kill you only makes you stronger" is true to every letter in the quote...
I've had alot of suicidal deaths in my life, and even though I don't know anyone on here- I would hate to see one more person go down like that, especially let alone a 13 year old =-( My ex boyfriend committed suicide in 8th grade and needless to say I didnt find his body but we broke into his house because he never came back and we heard a bang.. his bestfriend found him, I called the cops, and all I could see was blood, that will always haunt me. He was only 15 and to see a life taken like that.. omg...
Everything you guys are going through, is only for the moment, and it doesn't seem like it, but things WILL get better- it hasn't for me entirely yet, and I've been going through these things since I was 12, I'm now almost 20 years old. But I am a hell of alot stronger than I was.. just remmeber, the people who push through all of what life throws at them, are the winners.
If anyone ever needs to talk-
and whatever you need to talk about, if it helps you in anyway, I will be more than willing to listen- anyone.. I don't care who you are, I won't turn you away.. whether you are 8 years old or 99.. just please, before you do anything to hurt yourself.. get a hold of me.
or email me
also have msn messanger on that name and yahoo is
|16 Apr 2007||miranda.||hey everyone. my names miranda. even though im only 15 i think that i can make a differance in alot of your lives. im here to just put up my email. ive spent hours on here reading so many peoples stories and sending emails to ones that i could relate to and try to help. please talk to me if you have any suicidal thoughts or even if you just need a friend. i dont care if you are 5 years old or turning 80.. ill be here for you to talk to and try to help you. a friend is alwyas great to have.
|12 Apr 2007||Peggy||Later on in this message, I will tell you the easy, painless way to "do the deed", but, I want you to really, really listen and think first.
You all say that you have nothing to live for. You are all wrong! I firmly believe that we were all put on this earth for a purpose. We have all been exposed to horrible lives and childhoods. Have any of you thought that there may be a "higher" reason that you were chosen?
In this world, there are millions of people who are going through what you have. You aren't alone. Instead of sitting there, wallowing in the pain, get out there and try to HELP someone else. You have knowledge and skills, that came about through your experiences; that people who merely get that knowledge through books (at college) will NEVER understand. I'm sure you all know others who feel like you do. Start a support group. Spend time at a homeless shelter or a battered women's shelter. See a doctor about getting on anti-depressants, and TAKE the medications.
You are probably saying, "She doesn't know what I am going through". You're wrong. At one time, I felt the same way all of you do right now. I went through repeated physical, emotional and sexual abuse as a child. My dad was psychotic and my mom turned a blind eye. I was told I was useless, had no friends and felt isolated. I saw the world as a gray, ugly place and felt it would be better without me.
Then, long after I moved away from home, someone told me that, "God put you on this earth for a reason. Sometimes, the reason is "shown" to you early on. Other times, you must look beneath the surface to find that reason. But, when you DO find the reason, it is like a light bulb turning on. Suddenly, your life has purpose, and, if you follow the signs, you will find your purpose in life". They also said, "God NEVER creates a child to commit suicide. He ALWAYS has a reason". Look for your reason and you will find it. It may come in a dream. It may come while you are in your room. It may come while you stroll among nature. You will know your reason.
For me, the answer was going to college and getting a Social Services degree. I wanted to help children who had gone through/were going through the same kind of childhood I did. I got on anti-depressants, and now am realizing my "calling". That's not to say that God does not have other "callings" for me. This is just the first.
If you are still set on doing it, then I told you that I would tell you how to do it. I hope that you will think twice or three times before you end your life. Someone also told me "Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem". They were right. So use nitrogen gas if you want to do it. I won't tell you how it works. If you really want to do it, then you will have to research this method. I did a report for my speech class on the death penalty in college. I stumbled upon this little known way of ending a life. I suggest you go to the library and look it up. I won't make it easy for you to turn your back on God's wishes, or easy on satan's plans (which is what suicide is).
I am hoping that you will choose life. I don't know you, but I feel for you. Perhaps we can talk online, once you start your path towards the goal(s) that God has for you. I check my email once or twice a day you can reach me at: Perkypurrkat2002@yahoo.com.
Choose life, we'll miss you if you left this planet. So would those people you were meant to help!
|09 Apr 2007||no1||To It's tearing up my heart
You can't be sure you will die if you crash most people get injuries that hurt for years, and the worst part is your family and "friends" all know what you tried to do and talk about it a lot that is even worse, so don't kill yourself
E mail me at TBA
Anyone else who needs help can E- mail me too
|04 Apr 2007||Vanessa||You shouldnt kill yourself when your 13, younger or older.
It shouldnt even be a thought.
Life is a very precious thing.
You should live life to the fullest.
If you really need help,
Talk to your parents.
If you know your parents are not going to help you then talk to a school counselor or a freind.
There are even hotlines you can call to help you out like 1-800-273-TALK(8255).
They are there for you 24/7 and always willing to help.
Or if you like you can e-mail me if you want to talk.
My e-mail is BleedingHeart12@aol.com OR SilentLullabyxxx@hotmail.com. Either is fine.
Whatever you do, dont kill yourself.
Someone WILL miss you.
Life will get better.
Trust me on this one.
|30 Mar 2007||Bennyboi||Hi, im ben.
People love you no matter wat they say or do. But there are some cases that are a little extreme.
Like domestic violence and other shit, but never let any harm come to yourself.
People can be very cruel.
But dont let them get the better of you.
Im Bi and people tease me about it so I dnt let any1 see I care and I dnt tell anyone how I feel.
Let alone that Im Bi.
So if you eva need to talk about somethin, come and talk to me.
|29 Mar 2007||NOTwritingfromtheothersideANYMORE||Mouchette, I know I have posted on here in the past but I am completely through with this site. People killing yourself is NOT the answer there really is SOMETHING to live for even if you dont have anything now you WILL soon. I KNOW. PLEASE IF YOU WANT TO EMAIL ME PLEASE DO EVEN IF ITS JUST TO TALK OR IF U NEED HELP EMAIL ME AT firstname.lastname@example.org I WILL BE THERE IF u need to talk at all even if its just once. PLEASE dont kill yourslef.|
|24 Mar 2007||George||Hi everyone,
I am one of Anna's friend and she helped me a lot to see the good things in my life and not to give everything up by commiting suicide. Please give yourself a chance I know you might see no point at the moment but if you give us a chance we will help you be more strong and successful people in life.
All my love to these lovely and poor people xXx (Email me at email@example.com when you need a helping hand or contact Anna as well!)
|18 Mar 2007||Anna||Hello everyone,
i am here 2 help. anyone who has come on this site, well, i would guess is in need of some help or support, and i will be here 4 u if u need it.
okay, well this is my story...
i was sexually abused by my own brother. yes thats right, my own brother! i didnt understand it at first, because i was too young when it first started, but after 3 years of the abuse, i was old enough to realise that it wasnt right. it took me ages to build up the courage to speak out. i didnt think anyone would believe me. im not going to lie and say it was easy. in fact it was one of the hardest things i have ever done. but it was the right thing to do. so eventually i built up the courage, ignored his threats, and i spoke out. THE ABUSE EVENTUALLY STOPPED!
the abuse then lead to depression, self harm, suicide attempts, chronic insomnia, eating disorders etc.
and at the moment, i am still in recovery from and eating disorder.
but the thing is, i have been there done that, and i have come out the other side from attempts of suicide! there is light at the end of the tunnel and although the tunnel may be very very long, every single one of you can and YOU will get through whatever hard times you are going through at the moment.
my email address is firstname.lastname@example.org
i am happy to talk if you want. feel free 2 email me. i no things may be hard and really tought, and that its hard 2 think that life will be okay. but u wont always feel like this...things can and will get easier.
dont be afriad 2 talk out, or get help. because there is help out there. no1 should have 2 suffer with these feelings alone.
here 4 u all xxxx
|14 Mar 2007||sariah||Not to kill yourself---- maybe? I don't know. Im 16 almost 17 and i just got out of treatment for cutting. So i can relate to how you feel, somewhat atleast. So if you ever need to talk e-mail me.
|13 Mar 2007||Criss||You just need someone to listen, someone to talk to.
You just need someone to be there, someone to love you.
Its hard to find someone who's real, who will genuinely care.
And if they do, do you like them? A good friend is usually rare.
It's worth a try, if you don't die, and everything's ok, email@example.com
:) all you need is love, love, love.
|12 Mar 2007||remember to feel real.||sad?
i can listen.
people will always be cruel.
the world will always be cruel.
life will always be miserable.
what you need to do is find something/someone, that gives you reason to endure the miserableness of life. find a love. find a passion. whether its a person, or something like writing, singing, etc. find it. take it. make it yours. and run with it.
keep your head up. and if anyone tries to bring you down shove your foot up their rear end.
live. love. burn. die.
my prayers go out to you all.
i hope you find what your looking for.
ps. mouchette, i only leave me email for the kids, i really don't want to see any of your body parts in an email. please? i just want to help...thats all. i hope thats not too much to ask.