|Reading these suicide pages you will find people seeking help and people offering their help. Some witness about suicide from real life experience, others who play along with me would pretend it's a children's game. Some make sick and cruel jokes about it, and angry people blame me for even mentioning the subject. You might also want to read my favourite answers. If you want your answer to be included here, fill in the form.|
What is the best way to kill yourself when you're under 13?
Quelle est la meilleure forme de suicide pour les moins de 13 ans?
|05 Sep 2007||Angel||First off all I am very sorry to hear so many sad stories, some of the stories here are incredibly sad, my heart feel for you. I dot think anyone´s a coward for wanting to kill themselves, afterall it´s just a way of scaping the pain THEY feel, Do you hear that all of you who judge them?, It´s THEIR life and their decision, not yours, you don´t understand their reasons and you aren´t in their shoes, so don´t call them cowards, suicide is a tremendous decision that requires courage (that´s right, I said courage) and determination (sometimes it´s easier just to live a shity life than to end it), so to anyone contemplating suicide out there, remember it´s your decision, for your reason and noone else´s. If you´re not sure how you wan´t to do it then by all means get help, improve your life in whatever way you can small though it may be, do ask god for help, but do not depend on him, ultimately it will be you who will have to climb out of the hole, God will not save you because your already saved, I believe that a truly loving God will welcome you into his arms even if you end your life for a truly loving god will feel for your pain and will not codemn you to an eternity of fire and torment for seeeking to end your pain, that would make him a very cruel god in my book, so if you want hope and love look inside you and ask g od to help you through this time but YOU get to work on making it better do not wait for him (that goes double for all of you who posted really sad stories about your lives but decided to pray to god to surrender to his love and do nothing, goodluck but be prepared to wait for a long time, maybe your whole lives). For those of you that do decide to take your own lives please only think in the pain that will cause to your loved ones as unfortunately your suicide will hurt the ones you love, so at least consider that, you owe them that much, I think, if you however decide to take your life do your research properly, you don´t want to cripple yourself, hurt the ones that love you and live in a loony bin, then your life will truly be a nightmare. phew, a long post that was, please feel free to write to me if you like.
I love you all boys and girls no matter what you decide.
|05 Sep 2007||Faye Grzanich|| Killing yourselves, taking drugs, drinking, cutting, sniffing, etc..etc..is not the answer...
...all these ways are wrong...
God does not want you to harm yourself or others. This is not the answer to pain and heartache.
Trust me! I know firsthand the troubles you all are going through..I've been there many times..
And it was losing my husband that brought me to my knees. I turned my back on God, and was so angry. I got off on the wrong track, like to have ruined my life and my four kids...but thank God, He had his hand on me and others were praying for me..for He brought me too my knees.
When you feel at the bottom of the pit with no way out, there is..and that way is reaching out to God.
He's waiting for you, he was there for me and he will be there for you.
Give Him your all, lay your burdens at his feet..and watch him lift the load.
He wants us to love him most of all, and then he wants us to love one another as He loves us. He wants YOU too!
Living is tough, but the tough times will make you a stronger person if you don't give in to them. Fight the good fight.. there will alwasy be hardships in this world for God doesn't promise us a life without pain. But, He does promise us that he will be with us through it all..look at how he suffered on the Cross when your suffering and remember how He gave his life for you, so that you may live with him and have eternal life.
When your young, you may not see this, but when you are older like me, you will.
I thank God for the hardships in my life for they have brought me closer to him.
You kids that are having troubles, do the best you can to go on with life, and try to stay out of trouble and stay out of the way of others who want to cause you trouble or get you into trouble. Their time is coming, there will be a reckoning for those who have harmed you...
Find something you like to do and keep at it. Go to church, be a volunteer for something thats good and helps others. We are all given gifts (talents)..you each have one too and maybe even more than one....All you have to do is ask God to help you see what yours is and work on making it work for you.
I've read that kid's brains are not developed fully in frontal cortex where thinking and reasoning are until age 21, and so when you think as you do it is because you are not thinking straight...especiall when you think of suicide...you need professional help...
and its out there, you just have to ask your doctor...or Department of Human Services.
I'm telling you this truth, that Jesus is the best help you could ask for. He is the great Physician and he can help you change your ways of thinking, seek him and ask for mercy.
May God bless each of you who are struggling today with problems. You may think they all are beyond your control but they are not beyond God's control for He still is in control of this world.
Turn to him for help.
I can't say this enough...for my heart breaks reading the stories some of you write. God hurts too for you even more than me.. Let Him draw you close..reach out while there is still time.
God bless each of you..
|04 Sep 2007||Jolisa [[alone]]||well i have thought bout suicide but honesty never ever had the guts to do so . i have cut my self many many times but i feel that wen i cut myself it releces pain. killing yourself is not gunna do any better your loosing your life over depression .... well i am a very very emotianal person and about everything i cry about its hard for me to talk to ppl bout how i feel or how im feeling at the momment. but everyone here i see feels alone or feels like they have no one to talk to but look its not true ... we have eachother to talk to about how were feeling... now take into consideration that this life were living today is once in a lifetime chance .... we only live once and only once ! so why let it go. well if you guys need anyone to talk to i am allways here . my email address is SoSoSuductive01@aol.com were you can reach me im always here to listen and i am a very good listener ...
|02 Sep 2007||Faye Grzanich|| Please..PLEASE! Dont kill yourself....Instead, ask Jesus into your heart. He is the one you need right now and He is here for you if only you will reach out to him.
Here is all you have to say:
Jesus, I come to you today asking You Lord to come into my heart to stay. Forgive me for my sins Father and have mercy on my soul. Break these ties that keep me from you Lord, and set me free so that I may always love thee and always do thy will. Come into my heart today Lord Jesus, come in to stay. Amen
Then watch what happens...I can tell you this from my own personal experience that when you do your best to obey his Word, and have a daily ongoing relationship with Christ..your life will change dramatically. I urge you to read the Bible daily, and pray with all your heart and soul asking God to change your heart and make you into the person He wants you to be...and He will do just that.
God loves you and he's waiting for you to reach out to HIM. He sent His Son to die on the Cross for you and me..and He doesn't want you to live like your living now.
He has a purpose for you and you will find this purpose in due time. Ask daily for His guidance and strength to fight the daily battles you may encounter.
Be strong child and fight the good fight. You do have someone that loves you more than anyone could ever love you. And that is God. I love you too child. We all are given the "choice"..to choose HIM or not..I hope you do for if you do then one day you will meet him face to face and He can give you eternal life.
I pray God will open your eyes and ears and you will see your need for him. He is all we need!
God bless you child. Give your heart to God.
|27 Aug 2007||Cathy Estep||I wrote that message as a message of hope for anyone that may be thinking of harming themselves. I'm perplexed as to the purpose of your site. If you are encouraging people to harm themselves then shame on you. If you are giving young people a place to vent or look for hope then good for you.
I am in anguish myself over the things that I have seen in the last week. If I can reach out to ONE person and let them know that there is hope, someplace, somewhere, anywhere then I intend to do so. I stumbled across your site on accident while looking for help for myself. I believed that I had an opportunity to reach out to someone else that may be in a dark moment. As email messages can be misunderstood because of the absence of body language and tone, could you please inform me of the true intent of your site?
I hope with all my heart that you are not actually encouraging people to harm themselves. The death of my friend (whom I was the unfortunate one to
find) has left me scarred. I refuse to believe her death was without meaning. She will always be with me. I intend to give others the hope that she had lost and will not pass up an opportunity to share that with others.
Having had suicidal thoughts myself since adolescence I have empathy for people who have been to that dark place. I have now been shown the other side, the aftermath, the tragedy, the pain and suffering that such an act causes. I place no blame on her for what she did, it was her choice. But, I wish she had taken one moment to look beyond the temporary pain of the moment. There is much to live for. Life is truly beautiful and VERY worth living. I realize that now more than ever.
|24 Aug 2007||silence||I'm nearly seventeen years old, I've been trying to commit suicide for over eight years.
Every time I tried it wouldn't work, no matter how deep I cut or whatever I did.
I've been there, and I can't say if I'll ever recover but I can say that it is a great waste of human life. And it is the cowards way out.
I'm not being hypocritical, but when it looks like there's no way out, let go. Don't take it out on yourself.
I tried for so many reasons, bullying, a loved one's ongoing terminal illness and just pure despair. But they were mistakes I was lucky enough to come away from.
I'll be here if anyone needs a friendly ear, you can email me.
|20 Aug 2007||moll||about three years ago i started comming on this site because i hated my life, things just really sucked, and i didnt want to live anymore. I even tryed a couple times to kill myself. But 3 years later...im ok. Im not great, im not like YAY im alive..but i think im at peace with the fact that im still living. I dont want to really die anymore. Ive found things to live for, and it does get better. I want anyone who ever wants to talk about anything to email me, i will talk. No one should ever have to go through this alone like i did.|
|19 Aug 2007||mel||I don't want to talk you out of your feelings because your feelings are real. Suicide happens when you can't cope with your problems or to better explain, when your problems or pain exceed your ability to cope with them. (I hope I'm not being confusing.)
There are many instances when a persons threshold of coping is reached. It varies from person to person. What can be devastating to one person can be not quite as devastating to the next.
It doesn't mean that you are weak or stupid for feeling this way.
For 13 years old it's an incredible burden to have these feelings and I want to tell you that you are not alone and that there are people who care enough to want to help. Open your phone book and find the sucide phone number in your area or better yet search for the number on the internet. Then call and talk.
Don't call or seak help for anyone other than yourself. This is about YOU and nobody else.
|18 Aug 2007||Ellie||Ok first of all Jr the reason the survivors go to this site is because we know what it's like to feel like shit, and we know how hard it is to get better, and once you've been through something like that you don't want anybody else to feel like you did. You know maybe coming here is my way of making up for everything I did when I was depressed, it's taken me a long time to accept what I tried to do when I attempted suicide and the grief I caused everybody who knew about it. I don't want anybody to go threw what I did. I am fourteen and it feels like I've been through a lifetime of tears and pain, just because one night I decided to play with fire... and you know what sometimes when you play with fire you get burned. At least that's what happened to me. Anyway if theres anybody out there who wants to talk my email address is firstname.lastname@example.org, I promise I won't judge you.|
|15 Aug 2007||dina||hi if you ae thinking of commiting suicide please stop and take a minute and email. please i want to help. i do care about everyone person out there. please i had thoughts about this to and i can help you through this hard time . please contact me @ email@example.com|
|13 Aug 2007||Brandon||Im not the perfect person, no one is.We're all sinners and humans are weak.But God didn't put you on this earth and christ did'nt die on the cross for your sins just so you could end your life.Put your faith in God.For those atheist out there whatever you beleive is your choice.But im not here to judge but what im about to say I will ask God to forgive me for but it needs to be said.For those who have wanted to kill yourself,,your weak.Compare whatever makes you want to kill yourself to what jesus suffered.Did he kill himself,,even knowing he would die on the cross.No life is already short,,,why take the express lane.And dont think im trying to be a know-it-all,,im just a 15 year old boy,,hardly go to church,,wasnt raised in a church going family,,im just passing the holy teachings.I myself fear death.Sometimes I question if God exsits.Or wonder what happens when we die.But still I serve God.So if you think no one loves you,,then i love you fellow man or women and so does God and christ.Please dont do it.Please email me.|
|08 Aug 2007||lizz||alli, if you want sum1 to chat to my e-mail address is firstname.lastname@example.org|
|24 Jul 2007||just_a_guy||Hi. I'm a 20 year old guy. I tried to kill myself 2 and a half years ago. Things were hard at school.. I didn't have any good friends. I had a lot of pressure from school work as well. If you want to tell me your story, I am here to listen. And I hope you will listen to mine too. I don't mind whatever age you are. Please email me. (I have MSN too.)|
|24 Jul 2007||Helping Hand||My name is Dallas, I am a Pro from Lincoln NE. I'm hear to help, and I'm a good listener. If you need to talk, drop me a line.
|23 Jul 2007||flick||youtube.com/watch?v=QVG3jm2JjPE&mode=related&search=
sure you have time. give stuff a chance.
|20 Jul 2007||Rene||Hey, if you are here maybe you feel there are no more chances or life is too hard and you can't go on, don't think I'm tryng to judge you, but think of me as a friend, if you feel that you want to talk or you want to find some help please count on me. We can talk about anything and write me anytime, just remember we can try to get out of that situation no matter how hard it is or we can be friend and if you don't want to talk about that right now. Rene email@example.com|
|20 Jul 2007||nciole||www.recoveryourlife.com
sort it out!!!!!!
|12 Jul 2007||Rebecca (Rhoda)||Look, ths is the most ridiculous thing you could ever do. You leave behind your folks, people who really love & care for you. Remember YOU are bigger than your problem, not the other way around. Always be positive, it's easier said than done but would you rather leave heart broken family behind or one day when you look back at this - you are going to think what a fool you have been for considering it. live your life to the fullest & meet amazing people and friends. Don't forget there is someone out there thinking of you, praying for you and LOVING YOU! God is.|
|06 Jul 2007||cami||are u people crazy?maybe this website is good and bad at the same time...how the fuck can u take life so easy...there are people here who really need a helping hand just to tell them that they can do it....and not to think about crazy shit.and u people that mock the problems of others, maybe it doesnt seem so big to u but for them are the worst...try and have some simpathy, u know death and killing yourself is not a joke...try to remember that and try thinking that the person u might encougare to kill him or her self might be your brother, father, sister or mother...or maybe one of your best friends for whom u r so fucking busy to help...stop being so hypocrits and start giving some good advice.
for whom ever has the need to talk to somebody and have no one to turn to...i will be here...try talking to me...maybe we can work things out somehow, life is given to be lived ..not for us to take it away...
my adress is firstname.lastname@example.org
hope i can help u
|28 Jun 2007||Michelle||I've tried to kill myself, many times. and i have a best friend who is going through the same.. and you know what, i hope one day i can actually do it.. believe it or not tonight. like 5 mins ago, i took 5 over dose pills, that can kill you when you are sleeping, and i hope i wont wake up tommorrow but the point is, i can attempt but you know, it never works, and i have a friend(R.I.P. Andrew) who killed themself, it was upsetting and i think it wasnt worth his life! so i often ask myself, if it isnt worth his life why is it worth mine? well the thing is, i hate it here, i mean i have a great life,-i'm rich, i get everything i want, nothing bad ever happens- but I just dont want that, i dont want to be alive as great as mi life is.....
ok there is this total gorge guy in mi class, and we almost had sex, and i really want to have sex b4 i die, i want to know what it's like, but maybe that will never happen..
back to my life, I think i am not scared to do it, i came close but then i got rushed to the hospital and was living off machines, i took off all the things walked out the building, and guess what, im here right now!!!:( .... i have stabbed myself, i have jumped off my quad, i have cut my wrists, i have rolled my quad, i have tried to drown, sufficate, strangle and hang myself, it doesnt work, like really, but the thing i am most scared really of is.. who is going to find me????? i mean i dont want my mom too, my dad, my sister, my brother, my friends, my boyfriend, or anyone!!!!! and i dont want to leave my cat! she keeps me going everyday!!
So what i suggest is if you think your life is really bad! think really really really hard about it! cause you could be wrong and could be making the worst mistake and your last mistake! becuase why do something so pernament on something so temperary! I think that why do that to everyone around you and have you ever thought that it could someone around you so bad they would go crazy, never speak, or kill themself???!!!! PLEASE THINK BEFORE YOU DO IT! PLEASE!!! NOTHING CAN BE THAT BAD! unless you have been kidnapped or sexually abused .. now im sorry but if i was you.. i would defiantly do it, the best way possible.. so if you want to talk plz e mail me @ email@example.com!! "you are what you are, you cant change anything about you, but you can change the people around you, by actually commiting suicide!!"