Reading these suicide pages you will find people seeking help and people offering their help. Some witness about suicide from real life experience, others who play along with me would pretend it's a children's game. Some make sick and cruel jokes about it, and angry people blame me for even mentioning the subject. You might also want to read my favourite answers. If you want your answer to be included here, fill in the form.

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What is the best way to kill yourself when you're under 13?

Quelle est la meilleure forme de suicide pour les moins de 13 ans?
01 Jul 2008 Al Dear Jeff,

I am so sorry for your loss. My heart is with you. As terrible as you feel, suicide is not the answer. Death won't honor your loved one's memory. It won't make them happy. If they could speak to you now they would plead with you to live. As hard as it is to lose someone you love (I lost 2 relatives and a close friend last year), we have to honor them and show our love for them by living an amazing life. That's what they want. In our pain it can seem like our life is over, but it's not. We still have a purpose for being on this earth. Your life must keep on going. I would love to talk more, please email me. I'd love to listen and be there for you.

Sincerely,
Al
BigAlOh8@aol.com
29 Jun 2008 Someone Who Cares To anyone reading this.
As Al has said, suicide isnt the best solution. It is a solution, but at most a last resort, and a solution that cannot be turned back upon. I have spoken with Al very recently. They have helped me a great deal merely by listening to what i had to say.
I would like to listen too.
Please, email me: holluk93@hotmail.co.uk
i would be happy to just sit and read what you have to type and i will not judge you. I have been suicidal and i still get suicidal sometimes but each and every time i turn myself around.
Give yourself the chance to do the same.

Please email me

holluk93@hotmail.co.uk
21 Jun 2008 Al To EVERYONE,

I know you're going through so much right now, and it is so hard. Let me tell you from my personal experience... THERE IS HOPE. Life can really be terrible sometimes, it can seem hopeless, but it's not. Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. Things can get better. You may not realize it right now, but you have a purpose for being on this earth. You're not here by accident. And you must keep on living to discover and live out that purpose. I would love to talk more. Please email me. I'd love to be here for you and listen and support you.

Sincerely,
Al


PS. I highly recommend you talk with a professional about what you're feeling. You can call a free crisis hotline anytime @ UK Suicide Crisis Helpline: 08457 909090 (UK) or in the US 1-800-273-TALK (8255) / www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org. They have trained people who can help. It's free and confidential. You could also speak with a relative, counselor, teacher, pastor, or friend's parent.

PPS. You might appreciate this website about God www.thekristo.com
13 Jun 2008 Al Dear "its going to be ok,"

It sounds like you're going through a lot. I'd love to talk, and support you in anyway I can. Suicide is not the answer. Please email me.

Sincerely,
Al
BigAlOh8@aol.com
13 Jun 2008 I want to help you all. the best way to kill yourself...this question shouldn't even be asked. I have had two friends commit suicide within two months of each other. The worst part of one is after he shot himself he didn't die and he tried to revive himself after he shot himself but he bled out. You all think its what you truly want and what you truly need, and if thats true you'll never have the whole life package. In fact if you were in that situation you would be saying oh my life is beautiful, amazing and i want it back now. Heck if your trying to kill yourself before 13! Ask yourself this have you ever loved a another person, ever had that first fireworks kiss that makes you so happy you want to yell? Ever been married? ever held your own child for the first time? ever been bungee jumping? ever seen the eiffel tower? ever won an award? if your answer was yes to every single one of those questions honestly and truthfully you've lived a lot. But there is still more to live. I could easily ask questions all day long about stuff you have done. Then think about why you are even thinking of killing yourself, was it sexual assault? did someone break your heart? Are you depressed? are you on medication like prozac? (not only does it change you but it messes with your mind. so get off that sinister tablet and talk to your doctor about a better medication.) If someone has hurt you, raped you beat you told you your nothing, and it makes you want to kill yourself it shows they have one. So stand above them! you are bigger then the people that need to hurt someone else to get SOMETHING i don't know what that they want, you know what they did was wrong. If you got beat or raped it wasn't your fault and you have done nothing wrong at all. Lastly, i have read what you guys say about yourself " i am exactly who i don't want to be" if you have said that, i want you to email me so we can find a solution. People i am 14 i have seen so much in my life and i love it. I used to hate myself but i grew to love myself. One last thing that i want to add is that think about the 2,752 people killed in the twin towers terrorist attacks. They all wanted life and here you are taking your own life on your own free will...Before you make any decisions before you kick the chair or pull the trigger take 24 hours and ask the questions i asked early on and you will discover suicide is not the way to go.

I love you i love life and i am here to talk to.
email me at :

shanequaspicepower@yahoo.com

laxbabe14075@yahoo.com

I can help (:

24 hours people..
08 Jun 2008 Marthe I am selfish. I am everything I hate.
I am everything I wasn't supposed to end up like.
But suicide isn't the way out of life.
Everybody is here for a reason, and when you've completed that, you can die.

"Eighter it's going to be all right, or it just pass by."

Please, if someone wants help, contact me.
I've been suffering from badly depression for 4 years now, and it still haven't passed by.

angel_x_67@hotmail.com
(no, don't add me to MSN, send me an email.)
02 Jun 2008 Al LHLHY, jo, kill me already, AND TO EVERYONE ELSE READING THIS,

I know you're all going through a lot. Let me tell you from my personal experience... THERE IS HOPE. Life can really be terrible sometimes, it can seem hopeless, but it's not. Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. Things can get better. You may not realize it right now, but you have a purpose for being on this earth. You're not here by accident. And you must keep on living to discover and live out that purpose. I would love to talk more, and try to encourage you and and be a friend. Please email me.

Sincerely,
Al
BigAlOh8@aol.com
31 May 2008 chris ana my name is chris i dont normally email but you remind me so much of my girlfriend she was anorexic as well she killed herself in 2004 it has totally ruined my life i hope you get so help you are so young and have so much to live for if you wana email feel free chrisdadds101@hotmail.co.uk
26 May 2008 stephanie i wanted to kill myself. i had been sexually abused. i used to cut myself regularly. i was bullied at school. i hated it. i used to cut myself to gain some control. i felt empty and alone all of the time. i ended up with no friends and i took an overdose of ibuprofen + paracetamols + some other random tablets that were in the house. sadly i woke up in hospital. since then my life turned round. then it turned back and im now back where i was 3 years ago. if you ever need someone to help, or someone who wont judge, or just someone to listen to you, email me or add me on msn steph_999@hotmail.co.uk. i will answer every email i recieve and talk to every single person who adds me on msn.
25 May 2008 Al Dear Arnold,

I'm sorry to hear about all you've been through. Being made fun of is not fun. I was also overweight when I was younger and mocked for it, and it hurt. I know where you're coming from. But killing yourself is NOT the answer. You will get through this rough time. You have a whole life ahead of you. No one's cruel words can take away your worth as a human being. You have value. Don't buy into the lies you've heard, press beyond them. Look in the mirror and see a person of worth and value, someone special with a good future ahead.

As you get older and people get more mature, you'll find that no one will make fun of you anymore. And right now, you could speak with a teacher or a guidance counselor about the kids who are making fun of you, and they will be strongly told to stop right now (what they're doing is "verbal harrasement"--something illegal).

I definitely encourage you to talk with someone you can trust (a parent, pastor, school counselor, psychiatrist) about what you're feeling. It is so helpful when someone else can help you carry the weight of your pain and offer you a fresh perspective on things. I've also got a great set of ears if you ever want to talk (type). I'd love to be here for you in anyway I can be. Please email me anytime. And don't ever let suicide seem like it's an option. You will get through this painful time and go on to lead an awesome life! You are in my prayers.

Sincerely,
Al
BigAlOh8@aol.com
21 May 2008 Al Dear Chloe,

I'm so happy to hear you're alive!!! It sounds like you've been through a tremendous amount. You can work through your pains and struggles and go on to lead an amazing life. Suicide isn't the answer. I would love to talk more, please email me.

Sincerely,
Al
BigAlOh8@aol.com
21 May 2008 Al Dear "dead inside,"

I know the pressure for others to approve of all of us is a powerful thing. We all want to feel supported and encouraged. But whether you feel that right now or not, it doesn't strip you of your value. No man decides how wonderful you are, God does. You have great worth. You don't have to live up to any person's expectations, but the Lord's. Be encouraged. I'd love to talk anytime, please feel free to email anytime.

Sincerely,
Al
BigAlOh8@aol.com
21 May 2008 Al Dear KyraDeSutra,

Thank God you're alive!! I'm so sorry to hear of all you've went through at school. Being bullied is an awful feeling. You are at a new school, with a fresh start. Make the most of it. Come into things with a fresh mindset and a new view on life. I tell people all the time, your past doesn't have to be your future. People can be really cruel and stupid. But regardless of how they act you can act better. You can find peace in the middle of the storm. Something that helps is talking about your feelings with someone you can trust. Also, whatever they made fun of you for, is thier issue not yours. No matter if you have a handicap or are overweight or look different, it doesn't matter. You have value. You are special. Appreciate all you are. And be on the look out for new friends at your school. Force yourself to be outgoing and friendly, I'm sure as you settle in you'll make some great new friends. I'd love to talk more anytime, please feel email anytime.

Sincerely,
Al
BigAlOh8@aol.com
19 May 2008 Al Dear "kill me" who wrote on May 11,

It sounds like a lot's going on. Death is NOT the answer. I'd love talk and be here for you. Please email me.

Sincerely,
Al
BigAlOh8@aol.com
18 May 2008 Al Dear "tired of diapers,"

Your life is about so much more than a boyfriend or getting married. Those are things you'll probably do, but they're not your purpose.

Everything I said about a guy toward a girl in my last post also goes for a girl seeking a guy. What makes someone beautiful is what's inside, not outside. Our world brainwashes us into thinking the wrapper is what matters, but they're so wrong. It's no accident that 50% of marriages end in divorce. If you work on making yourself a 10 you'll attract a 10. And a 10 won't care whether you're covered in scars or blind or badly burned or wear adult diapers. He will love you for you. That's not some Dr. Phil psychology, it's a fact. This is coming from a real guy, who knows what he's talking about.

But putting that truth aside, a man is not your purpose for living. Your have your own purpose, a reason why you were created, and it has nothing to do with a man. Don't let anything distract you from living an awesome life and making the most out of the opportunities you have. You have breath in your lungs, you have the chance for an amazing life. Please, make the most of it.

Sincerely,
Al
BigAlOh8@aol.com
17 May 2008 Al Dear Richard,

It's so great that reaching out for help. I know you can work through your depression and go on to lead a great life. I know from my own experiences. I'd love to talk, please send me an email.

Sincerely,
Al
BigAlOh8@aol.com
17 May 2008 Al Dear "tired of diapers,"

I hear you. I am sympathetic to what you're going through. I can only imagine how annoying and rough it is. And maybe you feel embarrassed by wearing them as well. But I can tell you wearing adult absorbent briefs (as you called them "diapers") doesn't make you any less of a man. It is a biological struggle, it is not a reflection of who you are. A person in a wheel chair isn't any less of a person because of their struggles and you certainly aren't any less because of yours. Did you know astronauts wear "Maximum Absorbency Garments" (or diapers) during liftoff and reentry? I have never seen anyone think less of them for it, why? Because their body's movements are beyond their control in such times, as yours are. Whether your problem is the result of a physical injury or an emotional injury, it is obvious that you are not choosing to have this problem, but you can live a great life and work around it. And let me say, being in adult diapers wouldn't turn away a quality woman. She will love you for you. Believe me when I say a woman of any sort of quality will love you for the person you truly are, and a medical condition would never turn her away. Any woman who would only love you for your body or your health wouldn't be in love with you, she'd be in love with your body. There are a lot of great women out there, be patient. I'd love to talk more. If you want, email me anytime.

Sincerely,
Al
BigAlOh8@aol.com
17 May 2008 Al Dear "vomit,"

I don't pretend to have all the answers, and I don't pretend to know what everyone who posts on here is going through. But I do know one thing, and that is that suicide is not the answer. I know that no matter how awful life has been, you can break free of your past and go on to lead a great life. I'm not reading this out of a book, I experienced it. I nearly killed myself years ago, I do know what it's like to feel like there's no hope, but I also know what it is to have everything change inside yourself. If I come off like a know it all, I very sincerely don't mean to. I just care. It breaks my heart to come on here and read of all the pain people are going through. I don't enjoy it. It cuts into my own heart, but I push past that hurt because I care. I have a full-time job, I don't get paid to post on here. I am a very busy person, with a thousand things to do and no time to do them in, but I try to make time every day to try and help people on here because I desperately don't want anyone to kill themselves. The words I post on here often bleed out of my soul. I'm trying to help, I'm not perfect, and I don't have all the perfect things to say, but I do care. To you and everyone else reading this, if you want to talk, I'd love to be here for you. Email me anytime.

Sincerely,
Al
BigAlOh8@aol.com
16 May 2008 Al Dear "tired of diapers,"

Please, killing yourself is not the answer. Have you thought about where you would go if you killed yourself? You're trying to run away from temporary problems that can change in time, but what are you running to? After we die we go to Heaven or Hell for eternity. This life may only last 70 years if you're lucky, but eternity is not another 100 years, or 1,000,000, it is forever. Unending. If you commit suicide you may end up in Hell. I'm not saying all suicides go to Hell, but I'd be very scared. This life can get better, but in Hell you would be tormented for ever. You need to think though what you're talking about. Killing yourself is NOT an escape, it may lead you to a MUCH WORSE torture than you have in this life. What you need is to learn how to cope with your problems, improve on your life and make it better. You can smile again. Things can get better in this life, but once it's over and your dead there are no more chances for a better life. You may be hopelessly in Hell forever. I want to cry, that's terrible. Stop, and really think. Your life can get better, and Hell is forever. Get help now to help you through your problems (you can call the numbers below or meet with a school counselor). I hope you hear my heart. I really care about you. Please email me personally, I'd love to talk.

Sincerely,
Al
BigAlOh8@aol.com

UK Suicide Crisis Helpline: 08457 909090
US Suicide Crisis Helpline: 1-800-273-TALK (8255)
12 May 2008 Al Dear "blown to pieces,"

I don't pretend to know all you've been through or what brought you to feeling like there is no hope, all I can say years ago I nearly ended my own life, but thank God I didn't. Today I am a totally different person. Everything outside of me didn't change, I did. I'm a new person. I have new, much better-life-long friends. I am genuinely happy and free. Please, suicide is not the answer. You can also find freedom and go on to do wonderful things with your life. I definitely encourage you to also talk with someone you can trust (a parent, pastor, school counselor, psychiatrist) about what you're feeling. It is so helpful when someone else can help you carry the weight of your pain and offer you a fresh perspective on things. I would love to be a friend to you, please send me an email. I'd love to talk, and try to support you, encourage you, and maybe even give some good advice.



Sincerely,
Al
BigAlOh8@aol.com

UK Suicide Crisis Helpline: 08457 909090
US Suicide Crisis Helpline: 1-800-273-TALK (8255)

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