|Reading these suicide pages you will find people seeking help and people offering their help. Some witness about suicide from real life experience, others who play along with me would pretend it's a children's game. Some make sick and cruel jokes about it, and angry people blame me for even mentioning the subject. You might also want to read my favourite answers. If you want your answer to be included here, fill in the form.|
What is the best way to kill yourself when you're under 13?
Quelle est la meilleure forme de suicide pour les moins de 13 ans?
|11 May 2005||Laurel||slit your wrists|
|11 May 2005||Jenn||I think killing yourself is stupid but everyone thinks about it! Its not a joke its a big thing to deal with and if you know anyone talk to them and tell why its a bad idea. Help the see there is more in the world then what they are used to seeing and hearing. Killing yourself doesn't do anything for anyone if it does anything it makes the problems worse then what they are. I am 16 and I have lots of problems in my family and in my life i thought once killing myself was the right thing to do but guess what its not!! Talk to anyone about it and Help youself|
|11 May 2005||Tara||I think killing yourself is stupid but everyone thinks about it! Its not a joke its a big thing to deal with and if you know anyone talk to them and tell why its a bad idea. Help the see there is more in the world then what they are used to seeing and hearing. Killing yourself doesn't do anything for anyone if it does anything it makes the problems worse then what they are. I am 16 and I have lots of problems in my family and in my life i thought once killing myself was the right thing to do but guess what its not!! Talk to anyone about it and Help youself|
|11 May 2005||itfn24||The best way to kill yourself is not trying to do it. Try living because you will end up killing your brain thinking about it.|
|11 May 2005||stef||ive tried to kill myself plenty of times and nothing seems to work. i need some help, im so depressed and i cant cope no more. Give me some tips on suicide. email me at firstname.lastname@example.org|
|11 May 2005||Martin||Hanging is the best way. If you do it right you will not feel any pain and pass out in seconds, then be dead after a few minutes. I have done a few practice runs (full and partial suspension hanging) and it felt nice.|
|11 May 2005||Rebecca K||where to start..hmmm i am currently 13, and i have tried to kill myself many times. it all started when i lost all of my close friends, they started hating me for no reason, thats what they tell me. my first soloution was to starve myself, my friends never new that i did until we reached 7th grade, but little did they know that all through 6th grade i was struglying with ana/mia, thats not a bad way to die you think? no dont try that way it sucks and you get extremly sick, although i was dieing to get skinny, i didnt have enough control. so about two months ago i started cutting, i actully think that it would be a good way to die, but painful..very painful cutting doesnt hurt at all, but it feels like the right thing to do? so, do it, if you want, but when i do it i try not to go to deep, its not bad right? wrong, its horrible i know so many people that do it and its sad when i see there arms it makes me want to cry. i also tried drownding myself, i stayed under the water for only 3 minutes then i gave up because i started thinking about all my "friends",family and life itself, i wouldnt sugjest that method at all. the last and final way i tired it was taking vikidan, unfortunatly since im a big girl, it didnt work..right now writing this i am getting ready to go take some. but let me tell you,even if ur life is really that bad, dont kill yourself please, i know my limits and that i probaly wont die this way so..please dont!!|
|11 May 2005||Natalie||Run in front of a moving car at the last second. Make sure the care is going over 20 miles per hour.|
|10 May 2005||April VanZant -Indiana||Being under 13 does not mean there is a better way to commit suicide. There are a few choices which may be effected by your age,but, in my opinion there is no "best" way based upon age. There are a few diffrent ways to commit suicide, your descion should be based on how serious you are about being dead.|
|10 May 2005||maca||not uffication coz when u pass out u start breathing again and live so probilly drowning coz when u pass out u wont start breathing again|
|10 May 2005||stan||so n e way Im bored...and Im still alive,curse you Mr blody razor that was suposed to kill me but was found by my parents who stopped me.So kids the moral of da story is use a sharp razor if u r going to slit your wrists and if you chicken out dont let your parents find out u tried to kill yourself so that they dont think you are possessed because now my motha forces me to pray whith her every day so I can get the devil out of me(as if he really exists).and anotha thing getting really drunk doesnt make killing yourself easier it just makes your suicide letter incomprehensible.|
|10 May 2005||anonymous||I really thought about it last night... i dont want to kill myself. my friend and i both are friends again and i have friends... i just say that when i am depressed.. what helped me alot was i read some of the psalms in the bible... it helped alot! pray! God will help you get through anything!!!--|
|09 May 2005||Paris||I think you guys should wait until you are older to make a choice like that. I can't say if i a gree with the idea of killing youself but i do know you should at least wait.I don;t know how much pain you have so who am i to make a choice for you. email me|
|09 May 2005||Blue Devil||I cut myself it felt so good and I prayed that I can so I wont wake on sunday moring I had a weird dream come to me I dont feel comfortable telling anyone about the dream.Blue Devil I dont have a email dont have computer|
|09 May 2005||Revelation||I've dropped in depression before and i've been suicidal. I've cut my wrists, slashed my arms, smashed my head against walls and punched any object which could possibly draw blood. I have not only used knives but other objects which all seem to have a different effect of freedom and relief.
But i am proud to say i have overcome that feeling of nothing and how no one cares. Although my circumstances at home are not like everyone else i hold my head high and smile. I am a christian and i have found a meaning to live. I love life and i love God, it wasn't easy getting out of depression.
I turned against my friends, family and even myself. But despite everything i threw away i found myself not content with the fact that I was the one stopping myself from becoming the person i could be.
I've planned my death before, i even began the typical poem writing of death. You know... honestly... we are so YOUNG! There is a whole life out there that we are only just starting to see. I am 16 and if your younger than me i tell you now, don't throw your life away like no one cares. God loves you and so do i.
If anyone wants to talk them send me an email. I know what it's like and i never want to go down that road again because it's not worth it. Life is too good when you have God by your side.
Come on guys, my mum died when i was 9 years old. Everyone thought i didn't understand so they didn't pay me any attension. I knew everything, i saw years of pain and suffering. I endured hell and i still am till this day i am suffering from the effects of a loved one close to me.
I am a victim of someone who has died, it wasn't her choice either. But you have no idea what your actions do to other people.
Dead isn't the answer.
|09 May 2005||mr corrigan||i plan to kill myself with a spoon|
|09 May 2005||Alive And Well||well i couldnt kill myself last night. just wanted to let every one know that my deppression has subsided and i may be alive for another month.|
|09 May 2005||Brandy||It absolutely breaks my heart to even see this website. I was troubled as a teen also, had an abusive homelife for several years, my mom split when I was 14, I'd been attacked and raped by a burglar when I was 12, my parents split when I was 9 and all of my mom's subsequent loser boyfriends/husbands were cruel, violent, abusive idiots. I had tons of emotional baggage from those things, and became seriously depressed for several years, seriously contemplated suicide a couple of times. Actually had it planned out once, pills in my hand, but the phone rang and my friend talked me out of it. So, it's not that I don't somewhat understand the feelings, I actually really do. And reading these posts, it brings back a lot of those awful memories of feeling that way. I just wanted to post and say please, please try your hardest to give yourself time for your life to start. I'm 32 now, have a 13 year old of my own, who in my eyes, is of course, just a baby. It makes me want to reach out and be able to hug all of you 'babies' out there, tell you it will get better. I'm so sorry some of you have parents that treat you cruelly, you KNOW you don't deserve it. The problems lie with them, although unfortunately you suffer for it. I know, I've been there. You are all worthwhile, significant, and worthy of love. We all have gifts and are making differences in the lives of others every day, even when we don't realize we are. I'm so sorry you hurt, I know your pain is real. But if you take your life, you're robbing yourself. Try to keep this in mind: (I can say this now that I've made it through those horrible adolescent years-and believe me, NOBODY has fond memories of their adolescence, not even the people you go to school with now who you think have the perfect lives...20 years from now they'll look back and be so glad they never have to do THAT again, that's the same for everyone) from the time you are 11 until you are about 19, your body and brain are going through so many changes, it really does freak your whole system out. So even for those who aren't being abused, etc., even small things that go wrong feel very exaggerrated and the feelings of pain are inflated. That's not your fault, you are not crazy, a lot of teens suffer from real depression. It's a very real, very medical problem in a lot of cases, and can be treated. I understand that some of you are suffering horrible abuses at home, and that will obviously compound your depression or even cause it, and if that's the case, you need to get out of that environment. I understand some of you are not in the states, do you have the equivalent of Family Services, or Social Services where you are? If you are being hurt by someone in your home, CALL THEM for help. You can tell a teacher, tell the parent of a friend, tell a family friend that you trust, or a relative, or a coach, or you can even call the police. You don't deserve to be in that environment, you are a precious, important life who is on this Earth for many reasons! And even for those who are not suffering abuses, but still find themselves depressed, feeling hopeless, try to gather the strength and courage to ask for help. It's not your fault, you are not crazy, you have an illness. Like any other illness, it needs treatment. If you had cancer, you'd take treatment for yourself, right? Well depression is an illness, you have no control over whether or not you are afflicted with it, and there are medicications that can help. Also peer support groups, church youth groups, etc. There are people who care about you, and who will help you. For many, things get better after you get to be around 19 or 20, because your body stops flipping out hormonally quite so much, and things balance out. For some, depression will be something you have to manage your whole life (I have an older brother who has suffered since early, early childhood and who is now 39 and struggles a great deal to get through suicidal feelings), but you can manage it through support and medications, lifestyle changes, learning to manage stress and working to develop your coping mechanisms. That brother I mentioned, is 39 and at this very moment in the psychiatric unit of a hospital due to another suicidal episode. He hadn't been taking his meds for a week because he has a fear of driving and didn't go pick them up. But as soon as the meds began to kick in, he began feeling less and less desperate, he's beginning to balance out again. Please seek help for yourselves, and if you don't know how, email me at email@example.com and tell me where you are and I will find help for you. Please don't hurt yourselves, please know that you are significant, worthy of love, that you DO have purpose in this life, and that you CAN find joy in this life. You're just babies, you have so much time ahead of you to be whoever you want, do whatever you want, accomplish whatever you want. My thoughts and prayers and sincere wishes for your healing and happiness are with you.|
|09 May 2005||Matt||Best way to kill yourself? I'd say meds. I read a bunch of these posts, and I can honestly say that I feel sorry for you. You know what though. Things always get better. I was chronically depressed for three years and hostpitalized. I thought about committing suicide all the time and the only reason I didn't do it is because I didn't want to do that to my family. Guys and Gals, i know that trauma can be hard, and it will probably stay with you the rest of your life, but as you get older, it will start to matter to you less and less. In short, don't commit suicide cause you'll devastate those around you. Oh, and if you commit suicide, there is nothing afterwards. Well, that's just my opinion but it's probably the truth. That whole thing about you going to hell if you commit suicide is utter bullshit. Well guys, try to keep happy! Oh, and by the way, medication (lithum in particular) turned my life around. So if you're depressed, give them a try.|
|09 May 2005||Cai||Iris,
That was the most awesome piece of writing that I have ever read in my life.
You know something though... you mentioned metaphsyical existance... the basis of metaphsyics is that the expression of the universe works on the same principle as a holograms (a mass of wave lengths inconecting in a manner that is recieved by the human brain literally as a constant stream of wavelength; arbiterory reality is non existance as the human brain has as been clincially proven to work on the same basis; therefore we are the equivelent of holograms (that is, we precieve information in the same manner) and the world is holographic (that is, it exists are a mass of wavelengths, not as a contruct reality)
Have you heard of quantum entanglement? This is when two particles will move in exactly the same manner, mirroring each other, no matter what distance is between them. This contracticts Einstein's theory that nothing (including information) can travel faster than the speed of light, because speed and time are proportional. It is literally impossible. The only way entanglement can exist is if the two atoms are connected as some level that is more fundermental than we realize; thus the basis of the theory of metaphysics.
Anyway, that might seem a little irrevlent but it's not. It means that we exist in world where arbitory reality doesn't actually exist. Moreover, we are all interconnected at a level that is impossible to get away; just like quatum entanglement every atom of your body is connected at this level to every atom on the surface of the sun, one every atom on my body. We are all infinately connected; it has been proven by modern science.
In practical terms it means that you should get upset about people dieing, people having shit lives. It is literally impossible for them not be born again; by this model it is consciousness that creates the phsyical manifestion of the human brain, not the other way around.
There is nothing that you can't do, can't believe. There is nothing stopping you, even death doesn't matter because your consciouness will be rediributed at you will be born again.
You don't need to feel bad, you don't need to even care. Reality is just completely fucking arbitarory, and it basically doesn't matter. So create your own, that's what I say.