|Reading these suicide pages you will find people seeking help and people offering their help. Some witness about suicide from real life experience, others who play along with me would pretend it's a children's game. Some make sick and cruel jokes about it, and angry people blame me for even mentioning the subject. You might also want to read my favourite answers. If you want your answer to be included here, fill in the form.|
What is the best way to kill yourself when you're under 13?
Quelle est la meilleure forme de suicide pour les moins de 13 ans?
|07 Jun 2005||phil||Hello !
Pour ma part, je pense que celà réside dans le fait de ne plus poser ni se poser de questions ! tu es sauvée !
|07 Jun 2005||Nylphada (SYS/AS)||When your heart would have explosed...
When tears will run done your cheeks...
When suicide will leave a sour taste in your mouth...
I'll be there... we will be there we are the the suicidal youth services team... we would love love to hear your story... and of course help you make the best decison
|07 Jun 2005||Rose||Go get a razor blade and make sevral slashes all over your body, up and down your arms and legs, long ones on your mid body. And you'll bleed to death.|
|07 Jun 2005||Rebecca||slit your rist vertically and put your hand down the toilet and flush you will die instantly|
|07 Jun 2005||Deacon||This is the oddest site i've ever seen! I thought my life was twisted. I mean lossing 3 best friends, my job, my sweet car and my girlfriend of 4 yrs all in one year was bad. Maybe i won't do a shit load of drugs, boose and what ever else i could put in my body. And what's scary is that i bet some of you girls are beautiful. Inside and out.
That's all i got to say. IT real interesting to hear some of the shitty things you've been put through. As long as your over 18 please email me with how you have coped with everything!
|07 Jun 2005||Azalia||what the hell is this? are you seriously even thinking about 13 year old kids killing them selves? I have a little sister whose 13 and I cant event hink about it. I thought about suicide, I had a pretty rough life, you know the usual, born to a teen mom, lived in a motel til 13, step dads a crack head, real dads a dead beat alcoholic, never raped...but i was continually molested from age 6 to 11 by a bunch of teenage boys who lived down stairs. Dont ever give up. Ever. It will get better if you want it to. Go to high school. Get into college. Make bank. Live your life to the fullest and have kids and make their lives wonderful. Suicide? How do you know whats on the other side? you dont. be a good kid. you dont know if there is a heaven or hell. your to young to die. you all mean something to someone. so if you dont want to live for you. live for someone else. your kids. life hasnt started. I thought I knew it all when I was in high school. I didnt. College came in a flash. Life gets better if you want it to. I promise. Get good grades in school. go to college. It makes the world of a difference. Dont ever give up on life.|
|06 Jun 2005||Deacon||How can a 13 year old build such a web site?|
|06 Jun 2005||Salty||Vienna - That it the worst scenerio of events that i've ever heard of. Your sis really needs you. Even though after the rape things seemed to really force you over the edge your still hear. Why, because if your sister was all alone the stress would probally be to much for her. I know it would be for me. I'm at my end right now. I lost three extremely close friends, my job, my beautiful car, and the girls of my dreams. I pray to GOD it gets better. To the point it's good to hear your a trooper!|
|06 Jun 2005||Megan||well 2 years ago i attempted suicide...
this is why: 5 months earlier my father and grandpa died. my friends and sister abandoned me....it may not sound like much but i was so depressed. i failed but i wanna try again. everyday i think about how i can do it and where. everyday tho i think my mom and sis wont recover but rite now im in such a dark place..... so im thinking about commiting suicide.
|06 Jun 2005||life is a cruel joke.||you could either pretend to be superman and jump off a building...
you could skin your self alive...
you could post some gay thread on this site and tell people where you live and that if anyone wants to start some mess just come on over...
you could try eating little bitty pieces of broken glass...
you could drink rubbing alcohol(91 percent works best)...
hang yourself upside down and drill a hole in the top of your head. the blood will run out quicker than sliting your wrists.
if none of this works just pretend to be dead and when someone walks in the room hold your breath. if you can no longer hold this pose awake suddenly and still act like you were dead. tell them you saw hell and heaven. tell them you saw the person in the room with you in hell. make up something like your gonna die in a car crash and your head will be crushed.
|06 Jun 2005||Andrew||There is no way to kill your self cause u shouldnt kill ur self at 13 or there for any age you should live ur life free and happy i am not trying to be your mother adn tell u what to do but be smart and let me try to talk u out of it!! email me at firstname.lastname@example.org or im me at ghettopimp0914|
|06 Jun 2005||Im the Fucking bringer of truth assholes||You all are only fucking 13 or youner grow up first!!! you have your whole god damn lives ahead of you...ya it only gets worse but thats life you get over it and move on to the next shit hole thing owell you need to stop complaing about how bad your lives are you probably have it pretty damn good if you have internet that you can get on all time and yet your still complaining when theres people over in africa dieing of desiease and things so why dont you go on with your pathetic lives and GROW THE FUCK UP!|
|06 Jun 2005||lissie||ight i have serious issues..i dunno wats wrong wit me but i feel like life is so empty...i have good parents ! da best mom in da world! wats funny is dat they even supportin me an helpin me by givin me money when i need it since i dun have a job...im almost 20 yr old an i have good friends as well...the thing about me is dat nothing really pleases me..i get bored and tired 2 quikly in wateva situation im in...my mom jus took me to atlantic city an no joke i had 2 practically fake myself of BEING HAPPY in da sitaution. everyday is like me fakin myself as though i care about things when i dun really care about anything....if i stay home i start 2 get sad 2 quik but if i GO OUT i get TIRED OF PEOPLE way 2 quik...no offense dun get me wrong I LOVE PEOPLE...but i jus get tired way 2 quik from any situation an all i wanna do is sleep...now das life lol...i think das my favorite thing 2 do...sometimes im actually shoked at da fact dat i have friends dat care 4 me AN LIKE ME...cuz im SO BORING...I DUN TALK MUCH I JUS DUN HAVE DA SOCIAL SKILLS I GUESS but im da best listener an once some1 starts a convo i can continue....but then i jus gettin annoyed of talkin...so WAS DA PT OF HAVIN ME IN LIFE...I HAVE NO PERSONALITY! my friends tell me otherwise but i have no meaning in life..sometimes i feel as though i was born in2 da wrong family or something! my mom is so OUTSPOKEN..SHES ALWAYS TALKIN MAKIN JOKES...sometimes i look at her an wish i was like dat...anyways i guess wat im tryin 2 say is dat sometimes i think about DISAPPEARING OUT OF THIS WORLD! i jus wish i wasnt born lets put it dat way cuz i no some1 else in my shoes would be happier wit da things i have but i dun really care 2 much 4 things! i wish i had a gun 2 jus shoot myself 2 get rid of my "im never enjoyin life mood" because watever i do im not enjoyin myself...i hate myself an i wish i had charisma an was outspoken ...my parents r way 2 kind an caring 2 c me dead one day if i eva do anythin...they'd probably be very shoked cuz i seem like im fine wit life an not like i say I WISH I WASNT BORN.dude maybe i need medication 2 make me hyper an actually enjoy life ...but its not like im UNHEALTHY OR SOMTHING LOL im not mental but i wish i had da energy for life cuz i seriosuly dont....IF ANY1 CAN PLEASE TALK 2 ME OR IM ME 2 GIVE ME ADVISE OR SUGGESTIONS I WOULD LOVE DAT ...my screen name on aim is lizziebk1985...is u been in my shoes, know wat im goin through, or can jus help me out wit some good advise of wat i should do lemme no cuz i dun wanna suicide but in a way i do...|
|06 Jun 2005||Carmen||are you really going to take advice from people who are still living?|
|06 Jun 2005||not so tierd||ok this is to tierd out and anyone whom believes not on GOD. tierd out you posted you thought that you thought god would help you to get out of deppression. did you just come up with that idea on your own? how long did you stick with it?
GOD is not a santa clause or a genie in a lamp. he dosent do something for us because we want it to happen. people in america seem to generaly have this disillusion more than folks in foriegn countries.
you see first of all if you do not belong to him then prayer is of none effect.
if you wanna find out if you belong to him or not get on your knees and ask him for yourself. before you get up you will have your answer.
you see GOD wants to rule your life. if you wanna rule your life you are your own. and obviously if you are contemplating suicide you are not allowing GOD to rule in your life. but i have good news for you. GODS people are broken. the sad and poor. the ones mistreated and done wrongly. so dont expect GOD to just pop up and change things for you. "working miricals" where was he in your life before you were thinking about him helping you? were you serving him or your desires. if you are broken inside cry out to him. maybe nothing will change. maybe it will. his own son said while dieing on the cross, my god my god why have you forsaken me? if you or anyone would like to have a further conversation about this matter please email me. email@example.com but please do not email me if you are just going to waste my time and your own. if your not even the least bit openminded to what i have said hear nothing i can tell you will help you anyway. but you cannot say before god that no one ever told me.
|06 Jun 2005||None of your buisness||You people have issues. I lost my 15 year old sister and I dont think this is something to make lite of. You are disgusting and should be ashamed of yourself.|
|06 Jun 2005||Mr. Perfect||hi.. ive been depressed for too long any time is too long for me its been 2 and a half years ive sat and wondered why im so miserable ive cried and hurt myself, ive wanted to kill myself so many times.. always but the few people who care about me would be to greatly affected by my death.. and im to ashamed of myself to look for help, i cant relate to those who have been raped, witnessed death, or had serious family troubles i love my family but i wish the best to all of you|
|06 Jun 2005||Joyce, mum of Karen||If you are thinking about suicide ... read this first.
If you are feeling suicidal now, please stop long enough to read this. It
will only take about five minutes. I do not want to talk you out of your bad
feelings. I am not a therapist or other mental health professional - only
someone who knows what it is like to be in pain.
I dont know who you are, or why you are reading this page. I only know that
for the moment, you are reading it, and that is good. I can assume that you
are here because you are troubled and considering ending your life. If it
were possible, I would prefer to be there with you at this moment, to sit
with you and talk, face to face and heart to heart.
But since that is not possible, we will have to make do with this. I have
known a lot of people who have wanted to kill themselves, so I have some
small idea of what you might be feeling. I know that you might not be up to
reading a long book, so I am going to keep this short.
While we are together here for the next five minutes, I have five simple,
practical things I would like to share with you. I wont argue with you
about whether you should kill yourself. But I assume that if you are
thinking about it, you feel pretty bad.
Well, youre still reading, and thats very good. Id like to ask you to
stay with me for the rest of this page. I hope it means that youre at least
a tiny bit unsure, somewhere deep inside, about whether or not you really
will end your life.
Often people feel that, even in the deepest darkness of despair. Being
unsure about dying is okay and normal. The fact that you are still alive at
this minute means you are still a little bit unsure. It means that even
while you want to die, at the same time some part of you still wants to
live. So lets
hang on to that, and keep going for a few more minutes.>
Start by considering this statement:
~ Suicide is not chosen; it happens when pain exceeds resources for coping
Thats all its about. You are not a bad person, or crazy, or weak, or
flawed, because you feel suicidal. It doesnt even mean that you really want
to die - it only means that you have more pain than you can cope with right
If I start piling weights on your shoulders, you will eventually collapse if
I add enough weights... no matter how much you want to remain standing.
(Thats why its useless for someone to say to you, cheer up! - of course
you would, if you could.)
Dont accept it if someone tells you, thats not enough to be suicidal
about". There are many kinds of pain that may lead to suicide. Whether or
not the pain is bearable may differ from person to person. What might be
to someone else, may not be bearable to you. The point at which the pain
becomes unbearable depends on what kinds of coping resources you have.
Individuals vary greatly in their capacity to withstand pain. When pain
exceeds pain-coping resources, suicidal feelings are the result. Suicide is
neither wrong nor right; it is not a defect of character; it is morally
neutral. It is simply an imbalance of pain versus coping resources. You can
survive suicidal feelings if you do either of two things:
(1) find a way to reduce your pain, or
(2) find a way to increase your coping resources.
Both are possible. Now I want to tell you five things to think about.
1 The first thing you need to hear is that people do get through this --
even people who feel as badly as you are feeling now. Statistically, there
is a very good chance that you are going to live. I hope that this
information gives you some sense of hope.
2 The next thing I want to suggest to you is to give yourself some
distance. Say to yourself, I will wait 24 hours before I do anything. Or a
week. Remember that feelings and actions are two different things - just
because you feel like killing yourself, doesnt mean that you have to
actually do it right this minute. Put some distance between your suicidal
feelings and suicidal action.
Even if its just 24 hours. You have already done it for 5 minutes, just by
reading this page. You can do it for another 5 minutes by continuing to read
this page. Keep going, and realize that while you still feel suicidal, you
are not, at this moment, acting on it. That is very encouraging to me, and I
hope it is to you.
3 The third thing is this: people often turn to suicide because they are
seeking relief from pain. Remember that relief is a feeling. And you have to
be alive to feel it. You will not feel the relief you so desperately seek,
if you are dead.
4 The fourth thing is this: some people will react badly to your suicidal
feelings, either because they are frightened, or angry; they may actually
increase your pain instead of helping you, despite their intentions, by
saying or doing thoughtless things.
You have to understand that their bad reactions are about their fears, not
about you. But there are people out there who can be with you in this
horrible time, and will not judge you, or argue with you, or send you to a
hospital, or try to talk you out of how badly you feel. They will simply
Find one of them. Now. Use your 24 hours, or your week, and tell someone
whats going on with you. It is okay to ask for help. Try
phone or e-mail worldwide, or look in the front of your phone book for a
crisis line), call a psychotherapist, carefully choose a friend or a
minister or rabbi, someone who is likely to listen.
But dont give yourself the additional burden of trying to deal with this
alone. Just talking about how you got to where you are, releases an awful
lot of the pressure, and it might be just the additional coping resource you
need to regain your balance.
5 The last thing I want you to know right now is this: Suicidal feelings
are, in and of themselves, traumatic. After they subside, you need to
continue caring for yourself. Therapy is a really good idea. So are the
various self-help groups available both in your community and on the
and various online services.
Well, its been a few minutes and youre still with me. Im really glad.
Since you have made it this far, you deserve a reward. I think you should
reward yourself by giving yourself a gift.
The gift you will give yourself is a coping resource. Remember, back up near
the top of the page, I said that the idea is to make sure you have more
coping resources than you have pain. So lets give you another coping
resource, or two, or ten...! until they outnumber your sources of pain.
Now, while this page may have given you some small relief, the best coping
resource we can give you is another human being to talk with. If you find
someone who wants to listen, and tell them how you are feeling and how you
got to this point, you will have increased your coping resources by one.
Hopefully the first person you choose wont be the last. There are a lot of
people out there who really want to hear from you. Its time to start
looking around for one of them.
Now: Id like you to call someone.
|05 Jun 2005||Karyl, Mother of Arlyn||Dear Friends,
I do not understand why anyone would create a site that implies it's okay for children to end their lives, but I hope that whoever owns this site will wake up and reconsider.
People who are hurting need help and support to find ways to live, not to die.
My daughter killed herself when she was 18 years old. She had so many good things in her life, but she could not see, so she missed out on experiecing many wonderful experiences.
Please talk to your mother, your father, your grandparents, your sisters or brothers, your friends, your teachers or someone who will listen, to someone who will take your hand and walk with you to get the help you need.
Love and peace,
Karyl, mother of Arlyn
|05 Jun 2005||The Four Horsemen||Listen to me.
A lot of religious types say you will go to hell for committing suicide. Whatever god you may believe in, I don't think he would be cruel enough to give you a life of pain and suffering, provide you with an easy way out, and then condemn you for taking it. If god really is that spiteful, I'd rather go to hell than heaven anyway.
Still, I don't think suicide is the way out, but I probably only think that because my life is pretty good right now. All those people who don't understand suicide or make cruel jokes about it have a good life, and that's why they can never understand how truly painful life is for some people. I used to hate my life, and I fantasised about suicide for a time, but I learnt to rise above.
Some people with pain in their lives see no purpose in life. Others turn to religion to provide purpose. If you find strength in religion, good for you. But for some, the dictates of religion go against reason. We live in a cold world, where great pain and suffering is possible. What god would endure that?
Nevertheless, here we are, for better or worse, and whatever it was that caused the universe (or universes) to form, which you may call god if you like, decided that you should exist too. We would all like to give meaning to that reality, and the best I can come up with is this: the meaning of life is to live, and no more or less than that. So live. Even though LIFE=PAIN as we all know, as humans our great strength is our ability to endure. To go on. To keep looking up, in spite of a cold world that seeks to drag us down. I don't accept bullshit from anybody, and neither should you. Every time someone kicked me down I stood up. I'm still standing.
Society tells you it's wrong to hate, but I'm here to tell you that it's ok to hate when you've been hurt. I don't want to turn any of you into serial killers, but if you see yourself as a victim you will never be happy. Don't turn your hate against yourself. Hate the world that has betrayed you. Hate everyone that has ever kicked you down. Don't let go of the hate that makes you strong. The time for weakness is over. Remember, you are the greatest person to ever walk the face of the earth - until you believe that you will never be happy. Nurture an arrogance inside of you, a real sense of entitlement.
And keep looking up.