|Reading these suicide pages you will find people seeking help and people offering their help. Some witness about suicide from real life experience, others who play along with me would pretend it's a children's game. Some make sick and cruel jokes about it, and angry people blame me for even mentioning the subject. You might also want to read my favourite answers. If you want your answer to be included here, fill in the form.|
What is the best way to kill yourself when you're under 13?
Quelle est la meilleure forme de suicide pour les moins de 13 ans?
|13 Dec 2006||Zac||choking yourself with a dirty sweaty sock.|
|13 Dec 2006||bruno||drawning|
|12 Dec 2006||Auriel||This is so wrong on so many levels. Children have no clue what life is all about, I was one once. I am 20 now, and my dad killed himself 4 monthes ago. If you care about your family and friends at all, you will seek professional help if you are contemplating suicide, nothing can heal the pain you put your family through if you end your own life, think about that!|
|12 Dec 2006||JUST A MUM||I think when you put these type of children down you are adding to their downfall the more you degrade someone the more they will feel badly about themselves and others around them. I'm not religous and I've had a shit of a life like everyone here "minties moments". I just feel that these children are hurting for what ever reason to every individual it will be different and to them it is real. You Adults are no better if you can't say something nice FUCK OFF!!!!|
|12 Dec 2006||I forgot which name I used Iast time. =\||Mouchette!!!! How couId you! You never posted what I said I Iooked aII over this site!|
|12 Dec 2006||Kimberley Jordan||Well, ive been made fun of at school by one boy from year 7 to 8, i thought it would be ok, i wouldnt hae to tell the teacher or anything, but then in drama, he called me a name and i started to cry and ran out of the room. He stillt teases and makes fun of me. Eer since i started year 8 ive wanted to kill myself not just because of this, i also look at other familys, how close they are, how much they loe each other. My mum says she loes me like once a year, but she doesnt show it most of the time, like other mothers. Ive thought of killing myself, telling online friends id run away from home and stuff, but im to afraid!|
|10 Dec 2006||Cindy||I BEG OF YOU ALL PLEASE RECONSIDER.
I dont know if what I have to say will help anyone but all I can do is hope. Where to begin? I'm a girl (as you can tell from my name) 25 years old and live in Canada. I hope that anyone who needs someone to talk to will contact me, as I have been through it and would like to help you. I wont go on about what exactly I have been through(its a little long to get into right now) and as you most likely have heard it before (but if you e-mail me and want to talk dont be shy im here), I doubt anything anyone is going through will shock me I truly understand how cruel and unforgiving the world can be. Dont get the wrong idea I dont mean that as an insult to how you feel, its just ive seen and been through lots.
There was a time in life (and yes it lasted verry long) when i couldnt see any reason to go on. I tried many many times to end it all, but for some unexplainable reason I am still here (and glad of it). I noticed that the older i got the worse things got for me (but it didnt end that way, at least not yet). When i was young the world seemed different and the older i got the more it changed and it is still changing (how to explain?). When i was very young i though that the world was a good place, that if you were a good persone then it would be good to you. The older i got the less i believed in this. I suppose it had to do with the fact that I was out there more and experiencing it the way it realy was (yes life can be a bitch). I got to see the world and humans as we are. the world is not perfect and no one in it can be.
It seems cliche for me to say this, but i wish i knew then what i know now (and it doesnt mater how ofter you are told, it will not change until you believe in it). When i was younger i though so many minor things matterd, like that i was different and didnt fit in or couldnt get a boyfriend, it would tear me up inside to be tormented and bullied (just to mention a few). The thing that I realised as I got older was that, life in school is very different from the real world(contact me if you want me to explain further).
It took me a long time to see other peoples pain and suffering and to stop and think. One has to realise that even though things seem bleak right now, that wont be the way they will stay for ever (i know its hard to believe this), even though you feel alone you realy arent. If you think about the amount of people in this world can you realy say that NOone else has been through what you have. Yeah perhaps there are some minor differences and perhaps they havent been through the same sequences of events you have, but there is deffinatly someone who knows what you are going through. I thought that I had it bad and would feel sorry for myself hating who i was and cursing the life that i was given. I can look back at this now and see that i was a fool.
All over the world people suffer, usualy worse than anything we could imagine (yes some people have it worse than you, i know you dont want to hear that right now but its true). Dont think that this is reason to give up, because all though there is great pain in life there is also a form of happiness and peace. I dont believe in god and i guess i dont believe in the after life (i think these things to be a comfort for some and that is why we have religions, and its ok with me if you do believe in these things, to each his own). For the longest time I thought I was a coward for not being able to even try to kill myself and then when i finaly tried i felt inadequate for not succeeding. How wrong i was, i see now how weak one has to be to go through with it. Yes its an easy end to it all but thats what it is an end. There are no faery tales in life and no magical place we can go to after we die where everyone is happy. We are the here and now, this is the life we have and it is precious. It takes a strong persone to look past ones pain and see the value in living. Remember that nothing is permanent, if you truly want your life to change you have to be willing to work hard at achieving your happiness and you have to work at it everyday. Life is the one true thing that is ours.
Know that even today i struggle with much pain in my life but it is the moments of happiness that i look forward to and cherish. Life is a sequence of passing moments. They help to shape who we are. Though things may be dark now never give up there is always light along side the darkness.
I would like to thank you for taking the time to read this rather lengthy entry. Remember to contact me if you would like to talk. All i can do is hope that in some way my words were of help or mildly comforting. Never forget you are not alone.
Cindy (email@example.com) (sorry for any typos *smile*)
|10 Dec 2006||Megan||kill yourself. yer sure lets all try it. monday tomorro and im 12 sitting here crying when i read this sorta stuff its the only way to stop me crying. just aloud of people feeling cr*p wanting a easy way out. just like me. best way. just sit there tell the world to f*ck off and wait. lost in your own thoughts. yep this is the life.|
|10 Dec 2006||SIAN||ite im sian n im 12 ma mum is freting to kick me out n evry time she ses it i just wont out she dnt no how much this is herting me i h8 it i wish it would end ... all i wont to do is kill ma selff but i h8 paine so i need to no the most paineless ways n i dnt need help i no wot i wont n it is to start my lyf all ova meen now m8s maybe even have a new family ....i dnt get it iff u no ur not gunna b a good mum then y brig a kide into it i h8 er so much n this time i meen it i have allready tould so off ma m8s that i aint gunna b at school tmoz i cant let umm dwn now coz it will just make things wors than thay arr so iff i aint dun it by tmoz dus any 1 no i warm place that a 12 ur old can sleep in marg8 kent ........help me|
|10 Dec 2006||sick!||you kids are sick and demented...suicide is a perminent answer for a temporary problem|
|09 Dec 2006||Coco||hey kid plz dont kill your self I ? you! you can talk to a friend or a adult but plz there are ways that you can deal with this problem...
think of you'r family you'r friends
we all need you here and we all love you!
dont lesen to this fool
you have something better to do
so please do not do not do not do what she/he says
|09 Dec 2006||emily dendy||hi im bk nd i rele wonna kill myself fer real...my frends h8 me im alone...so alone..no1 cares...no1 eva cares...no1 will eva care...lifes so fuckin shit atm...i wonna go...no1 will miss me...plz help me...im alone|
|09 Dec 2006||swift909||Dear friend,
Suicide means to finish own existance. It is a way of the escapist and coward person. Life is a challenge we have to continue our struggle for survival and betterment of livlihood. See if the animal live even in worst, tortured and painful conditions, it does not commit suicide. You can say that animal has no brain to think of it, but realise
that the brain and its wisdom should be used for positive vision, constructive approach and optimistic thinking.
The civilised society is contributed by each and every person of the society that is why every person and his existance is equally imortant for the society. Escapist thought is the beginning of the downfall of the society as a whole, because the person who wants to commit suicide is escaping from its liabilities and duties towards the society but on the other hand it is a challenge for the remaining persons of the society to think over the reasons for what the that person would have
been forced to commit such an extreme step to cut away from the society.
The braves are alway remembered and worshiped for their struggles and sacrifices against the worst conditions, not the escapists who selfishly commit suicide. Live and let others to live. Live to love and
love to live.
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|08 Dec 2006||Fuck life||so i have been thinking about suicide for about 4 years ive tryed it 8 times and 4 ended in the hospital i think aobut it everyday and its just now a daily part of life|
|08 Dec 2006||Pippa||DON'T DO IT!!! You know its not worth it. If you do it think of the people that are going to miss you. there is always one person!
|07 Dec 2006||momoo||u all are crazy fuckers get help|
|07 Dec 2006||David||chocking yourself on jacks, or drinking bleach from under the kitchen sink.|
|07 Dec 2006||emma||hi im emma (age 13) i cant take it any more pleaz help every 1 hates me i have no friens when i come home from sleepin all day at skool where every one teases e for bein different and willin 2 speak up i get straight on da pc or i go do drugs and shyt i hate it i dont give a flyin FUCK about life noone will go out wit i asked 1 guy out and he almost fuckin peed his pants 4 laughin god I WANT TO FUCKIN DIE (AND I HATE GOD DAMN THERIPISTS) HELP MEEEEEEE T__T email me wit help pleazzzzz and no god damn docters pleazzzzz (firstname.lastname@example.org) ps im fuckin adicted wit myspace >_< damn it my life suxxxxxxxx|
|07 Dec 2006||reese||I don't think anyone chooses to think about suicide. suicide crosses a person's mind when to them there is absolutely no sign of hope or a solution. a suicidal person doesn't think of suicide as a quick solution but rather as the ONLY solution. It is because of how our mind thinks that we get depressed, sad or even happy. situations don't determine how we feel. it's how our mind interprets what happens to us that makes us "feel." some people see problems as just an obstacle, while others see it as a hundred foot wall. the hardest thing for a suicidal person is the thought that nobody out there understands what they are going through. because of this, they feel alone. and it makes their problem bigger. it doesn't help them at all when others say, "oh, suicide is a selfish act" or "its just a way to point fingers at peoople who you think have fucked up your life." when a person thinks about ending their life, they are saying that they are tired, and exhausted of living. the only way to stop a machine is to turn it off. our brain is a machine ; a machine that runs non stop until we die. they key word is DIE. our brain shuts off only in DEATH. drugs and alcohol help but not for long. so what's the best way to get out of hopeless situations? DEATH! think about it. no more sadness, no more LONELINESS. no more guilt. and really, who cares what people think when you kill yourself. your'e not there to hear about it! maybe it is selfish, but hey! the point is that you are not hurting anymore!!!
so why didn't i kill myself few years back? because of one thing: LOVE. what brought me hope was the thought that someone out there was ready to love me and be there for me. I may have met them already or i had yet to meet them. but it excites me to think that someone out there was ready to take me out of loneliness. i didn't want to leave the world not knowing who this person was. the loving hug of a soul mate is enough to erase a peron's problems away. love doesn't necessarily say it understands. it just says that when life hits you, YOUR ARE NOT ALONE.
We all have the same issues here. Lost love, Betrayal by a trusted person, neglect and all that fuckin stuff. but now i refuse to hurt myself because of someone elses fuckin stupidity. instead of hurting myself i'll get them back by becoming better than them. i've got nothing to lose....i already have nothing!