|Reading these suicide pages you will find people seeking help and people offering their help. Some witness about suicide from real life experience, others who play along with me would pretend it's a children's game. Some make sick and cruel jokes about it, and angry people blame me for even mentioning the subject. You might also want to read my favourite answers. If you want your answer to be included here, fill in the form.|
What is the best way to kill yourself when you're under 13?
Quelle est la meilleure forme de suicide pour les moins de 13 ans?
|04 Mar 2008||The best way to kill yourself IS NOT TO!! Its just an easy way out for weak ass people and for people who think that maybe after their death they will finally get the attention that they didnt get when they were alive. Suicide is easy, staying alive and dealing is harder. Suicide seperates the strong from the weak.|
|04 Mar 2008||mark||die inside before you die outside|
|03 Mar 2008||Al||Dear "F... u all" (posted on 2/2),
It sounds like you've been going through a whole lot. I'd love to talk, and try and offer you some support and encouragement. You have value. You matter. Suicide is not the answer. Please email me (and anyone else who'd like to talk).
|03 Mar 2008||Al||Dear "SOON,"
Please don't think about killing yourself. Your siutation is rough and painful. But it's not hopeless. Most people who consider suicide don't actually want to kill themselves, they just want to stop the pain. There are two ways you can lighten the emotional devastation you feel (and live!). 1. Find a way to lessen the pain (find better friends & become a better friend). 2. Learn how to grow your coping ability (realize how special, important, and valuable you truly are).
If you have two faced friends, the best thing you can do is look for better friends. Work on developing those great qaulities in you that make YOU a great friend (kindness, love, gentlesness, thoughtfullness, etc.), and be friendly. No doubt you will make some quality friends in time who will love you for you, and truly be there for you. My teen life was filled with fake, selfish friends. But when I started working on making me a better person, and spending less and less time with them, great new friends came into my life (that I've had for over 10 years--I've even been in thier weddings). And never lose sight of how special you are. You have a purpose for being here on this earth, you are not an accident. There is a lot of good for you to expireince and do on this earth. It's not your time to leave it. I'd love to talk more, please email me.
Al - BigAlOh8@aol.com
|03 Mar 2008||Al||GOD EXISTS & HE'S NOT TO BLAME. That sounds like a lie to some of you. I just read MO'S comment and my heart broke for all they've been through. And others like them. But God isn't to blame and denying His existence won't wipe away your pain. He wants you to run to Him for forgivness and comfort and healing.
If God is love why are there so many terrible things happening in this world? You have 3 options.
1. God is dumb. He created it all, but He didn't know what He was doing and doesn't know how to fix it.
2. God is a jerk. He is a cruel dictator, who gets a kick out of watching little kids die of Leukemia.
3. There is something radically wrong between God and man. This is what the Bible teaches.
The Bible says, Through one man sin entered the world, and death through sin, and thus death spread to all men, because all sinned. We were meant to live forever in the Garden of Eden, in perfect health and happiness, but sin ruined everything. As a result, disease, suffering, and death entered the world. But we can't blame God or Adam & Eve; we're the ones who keep our high murder, rape, and crime rates by our choice to keep on sinning. Instead of seeing your suffering as an excuse to reject God, it should be seen as a very real reason to turn to Him. It should remind you that were guilty and desperately need forgiveness.
The Bible can be scientifically proven to be God's word. A study of it's supernatural prophecies proves that. You might appreciate "The Case for Christ" by Lee Strobel or "The New Evidence That Demands a Verdict" by Josh McDowell for tons of more info.
God is very compassionate. Instead of hopelessly sending you to eternal torment without relief in Hell the first time you lied or blasphemed His name He has treated you with love and patience and allowed you time to turn to Him and get right. God loves you. He proved that when He sent His only Son Jesus to die on the cross. Jesus took the punishment for your sins, so they could be forgiven if you'd choose to follow Him. He could have turned His back on you and me, but He didn't. And God sees what you're going through right now and He cares. Please don't let your pain turn into bitterness and reject the only one who's truly always been there for you. You may want to see www.thekristo.com for more.
Please email me, I'd love to talk more. I have a great listening ear, and I care. I know what it's like to be suicidal... and to find hope, and true happiness.
Al - BigAlOh8@aol.com
|03 Mar 2008||Cori||I got a threatening email too. The person asked if I realized what I had posted to. Yes... I do realize what I posted my story to. The moral is I watched a friend attempt suicide and it was horrible. No matter what killing yourself is only a sign of weakness. I told that story on this website because I want YOU to understand what others will feel through your actions. I hope everyone who has ever had a suicidal thought reads my posts. Its NOT the way to deal with issues in your life. Everyone has ups and downs throughout life.... EVERYONE! Rather than contributing to this website, go to one that is a support group who can help you sort your thoughts into a more positive manner and hopefully help you continue your life forward rather than ending it.|
|02 Mar 2008||Mo||I am 28 and feel that life is a sick joke. I used to believe in a loving God. I am now an atheist. I did not become an atheist because I was "mad at God." To be mad at someone or something implies that you still believe in that person/essence. All my life I have suffered and losing my mother last year was the last straw. I am angry that I actually labored under the delusion that God had a plan for me and would help me if I prayed hard enough. He allowed me to be raped as a child. He allowed me to develop horrible medical and psychological problems. He took my mother from me. I cannot believe that a loving, omnipotent deity would do such things. Thus, I do not think God exists. Of course there are other reasons I do not believe--Theological and other reasons that are far too complex to go into detail here. Suffice it to say, the weak , inane "God loves you" arguments given to me by friends and family who have never read about Mithras, studied Theology, refuted Pascal's Wager etc. are little more than hot air from the mouths of the ignorant. They do, however, elicit a sardonic chuckle. I am a good person who has suffered needlessly and I am sick and tired of living. I want out. I firmly believe that some of us are better off dead.|
|02 Mar 2008||Soon||i bet if i killed myself no one would even notice or miss me. my friends suck, they dont care about me, they only know i exist when im in their presence if im lucky. i will shut my cell phone down soon and then i will do it.|
|02 Mar 2008||jaz||ive allways wanted to kill myself since i was 8 n the reason is i have a cleft lip hair lip n i get really teased bout it ive had enuff
i just duno how im going 2 do it yet????????
|02 Mar 2008||AAIZZ||im thinking of putting end to my life too . im not scared of dying and there is noone that would get hurt . i feel worthless i feel empty and scared im in pain and every body so far away .no body understand wot i say i think no body cares ,now i dont care my self . i know when ppl say that u shouldnt commit a suicide that they dont get it , i had enough i dont wanna live anymore i get hurt every day , im 22 yrs old but i feel like im 70 , i tired all kinda of drugs but im still depressed , and it hurts so much , im just preparing my self to it , i dont want it to be painful and i dont wanna fail , and i wanna be 100% convinced. ppl think u r cowards or crazy but they dont know how much brave u should be to take ur own life and to put end to it . im tired of all ppl who keep talking of things they dont know about thing about and give u false hopes of this life . its just a painful waste of time|
|02 Mar 2008||I'm more suicidal than ever when Mouchette doesn't update her site.|
|02 Mar 2008||matty||Hi, iam matty life can be shit but since my grandma died i have wanting to kill my self dont do it coz fink about when ur older having a life.
dont do it if u want to join the army.
|01 Mar 2008||James||Convince a doctor that youre an overgrown fetus|
|01 Mar 2008||philimeneski||God I'm such a waste. My whole life is nothing. I dont thin I'll ever be able to sort out the screwed up mess that I ma, I just get worse and worse. Getting drunk in my room on vodka, like that's going to help me. I feel like nothing, less than that. Since I can remember I've prayed to god, asking him to kill me but my prayers are never answered.|
|01 Mar 2008||michael||Well personly if i was going to kill myself, i would hang myself.
ive been threw horrible stages of depression,cancer and depression runs in my family and i only have very few reletives left,but still, i would never kill myself
|29 Feb 2008||José Carballo||On ne meurt q'une fois ... on ne vit q'une fois ...|
|28 Feb 2008||Cori||I want to share something that I went through today. I received a phone call from a good friend of mine saying goodbye and telling me to tell his children how much he loves them and that he just couldn't take the pain in his life anymore. I immediately called 911 and drove over there without stopping for red lights or stop signs. The paramedics barely made it there. He was almost dead... Now if you are someone who is thinking about committing suidcide please listen to my thoughts as being someone on the other side and going through what I went through today. My friend did have a lot of issues going on in his life of which aren't changeable overnight, but everything can be worked through. When I got to the house today the paramedics carried him up the stairs and wouldn't let me go near him. They sat him down on a chair and asked him what his name was and he didn't know. They had to hold him up just to get him into the chair to give him some sort of a shot. I finally was able to walk over to him and I looked at him in his eyes and didn't see my friend anymore. He was almost dead and I could see it!!! I could see it!!! I promise you that no matter what your going through in your life at least one person loves you... Imagine the feeling they would feel if they looked into your eyes and you weren't there.. I was lucky enough that they saved him and hes in the hospital now getting help Please... get help!!!|
|28 Feb 2008||Angel||First all killing yourself is stupid. If you want to kill yourself go on meds get therapy, do something about it. Also if you kill yourself think about all those people who love you and who would be destroyed. Also you shouldn't consult other sick people about suicide. Life is hard but stick it out bc before you know it things will turn around. But you will never come to that realization if you kill yourself.|
|28 Feb 2008||jack ballerstein||jump of a bridge|
|28 Feb 2008||Someone||Death by chocolate.|